Being a Rider sucks. There's no way around it. Unfortunately it's hard to justify a statement like that now because of how broad the "Kamen Rider" name has become to include more than just the heroes. But let's ignore all that and just talk about the heroic Riders.
I remember a while ago someone bringing up the point of how many Riders are orphans. I think that's a crucial part of the story: I would only want to be a Rider if I had as few worldly attachments as possible. You'll notice with pretty much all the old Riders, they're orphans or their family's death is what puts them on the path to becoming a Rider. Because let's face it: if you're up against a secret organization where assassination, kidnapping, extortion and murder are regular features, then your own family would be a huge target. Look at V3!
With them gone, there's still the hero's surrogate family: the friends. Fortunately, they're usually either 1) not seen as being enough of a threat, 2) mostly capable of taking care of themselves if a bunch of guys jump down from the ceiling, or 3) they're Taki, who has got to be superhuman considering he can get frozen alive and drained of blood in back-to-back episodes and still be okay at the end. I suppose a darker-minded fan might imagine he goes back to the US at the end and has a nervous breakdown, becomes an alcoholic, and has delusions of singing crows and Amamoto's spinning face... but we all know he just goes on to play Skullman for a while and eventually settles down with his wife from those two episodes, and has a daughter. Right? RIGHT? Good.
With the newer Riders, they can keep more family around, but that's the nature of the villains. I always thought it was one of Kuuga's greatest missed opportunities that they didn't bring the fight into the cafe or to the preschool, but then that's the whole point: those are the havens from the madness of the outside world. Well, not so much the preschool because those kids had
issues, but the idea is that Godai's sister and Oyassan (his surrogate dad) wouldn't be in any danger unless they were out in harsh reality, in the wrong place at the wrong time. They still feel the gravity though, which is important.
Most of the Heisei villains are not actively targeting the heroes' friends/family aside from specific times. It's probably a good thing for the heroes: can you imagine Tendô coming down in the morning, making breakfast, going and finding the Hoppers with their feet up on the table? Or Hibiki gets back to the tea house only to find it smashed in by a giant banana-cat? Or Shôtarô gets back to find Akiko missing and Philip burning the place down because he wants to better understand fire?
Not enough Riders have been in serious romantic relationships, but I think that would be another huge target, so that probably explains itself. Shin!
But still, I don't think it even matters if you're a cyborg or human. As tough as it is being a cyborg, at least you're already there. Secretly, you've become the very evil you're fighting, with the difference being you still get to keep things like compassion, love, humanity, etc. I think it's almost worse if you are human, because then there's the potential of it dragging you down. With Shinji, it kills you, with Kenzaki, it consumes you (albeit in one version of each of those stories.)
Godai gets to walk away, but not without the ultimate sacrifice. Most of the others who come out in the end okay still have to go through hell. I wouldn't want to be Wataru for those few episodes where he's basically barricaded himself in because he doesn't even want to risk stepping outside. Hibiki doesn't suffer a whole lot for being who he is, but he's also caught up in a never-ending war until he bows out or dies in battle.
Of all the Riders, Ryôtarô gets by fairly well, but even he's being worn around by a bunch of other guys, and there's a whole lot of of ethical questions you could bring up there. I thought about this in the Decade episodes: When Momo possessed Yuusuke and eats all that pudding, who's actually eating it? And we see the physical strain it eventually puts on him in the series proper. I'd have liked to see the more mental side too (hey, there's still time!) Ryôtarô's personality gets overwritten so many times, he ends up acting more like the Imagin even when they aren't directly controlling him at the moment, stuff like that.
Of course because these are family-friendly programs, they're more interested in showing us the action rather than the small details, and rightly so. People in Den-O get thrown miles and live. We don't really need to understand how the whole 'cyborg' thing works in nitty-gritty detail. For all the death and destruction in Kamen Rider, there is a level of certainty and safety among the main cast, most of the time. In controlled TV land, being a Rider doesn't seem
all that bad. In the real world? Gah, I don't even want to think about it.
On the other hand?
There's definitely an appeal to it. Which again, goes along with what we've seen on TV. Riders are often people who are already alone in the world, or close to it. They might have their whole life ahead of them, but they don't know what they want to do with it. Suddenly their life changes, and as bad as things get... it changes for the better in the long run. Take any Rider series, do a "what-if" situation where they didn't become the Rider, and how often do things really end up better for them? I return to the great hypocrisy of Kamen Rider: Forever alone, but surrounded by friends. Granted, the main Riders tend to be very good, kind people as well, so that helps. But becoming a Rider awakens something greater within them.
I think once you were in that world you'd never want to leave. Missing Ace pretty much summed up exactly that. Once the battle is over, these people have no idea what to do with themselves. They try to get regular jobs and live normally and even get married, but as soon as they're given a chance to get back into it, they jump. It's understandably a high. It's that "fantasy is more exciting than reality" thing, except the fantasy was/is real. And terrifying, dangerous, but also so alive.
But me? I don't think I could hack the Rider thing. I'd make a good Oyassan though.
