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If I thought you were being serious AT ALL I would have a very different smiley, though. :loltongue:
 
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If I thought you were being serious AT ALL I would have a very different smiley, though. :loltongue:

...Depends on what girl you're talking about, really. Anyone else could easily throw up a photoshopped pic with a disparaging comment about guys...and they'd be partially right. There are shallow people in both genders, sadly.

I think, here, for you guys, the best advice is TRY NOT TO BE AWKWARD. 'Cause you know, if you post on forums and like anime/Toku, chances are you're awkward, right? Right? :p (I'm very not serious, but there's a whole host of answers coming down to, "don't be awkward", which is kinda...self-hating, isn't it?)
 
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...Depends on what girl you're talking about, really. Anyone else could easily throw up a photoshopped pic with a disparaging comment about guys...and they'd be partially right. There are shallow people in both genders, sadly.

I think, here, for you guys, the best advice is TRY NOT TO BE AWKWARD. 'Cause you know, if you post on forums and like anime/Toku, chances are you're awkward, right? Right? :p (I'm very not serious, but there's a whole host of answers coming down to, "don't be awkward", which is kinda...self-hating, isn't it?)

that's why you have 2 personalities like me, an internet one and a real life one.
 
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that's why you have 2 personalities like me, an internet one and a real life one.

...Or you could be yourself, but not awkward about it. Or make your awkwardness funny. My friend does that and goes out on more dates than me. Man or woman, we all love to laugh.
 
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Paging Love Doctor FQ and BD... Paging...

*runs in* What? what? The Doctor Is In! <3

I'm definitely down for giving whatever advice you guys need. If anyone is to shy to ask someone on here you're also welcome to PM me ^_^

I've had my fair share of relationships, some of which went HORRIBLY WRONG(even violent) and some which were really awesome (cough,cough LunaTrigger lol). I've been there, done that, or attempted that, on almost everything.

I'm an open book ^_^

Golden rule to remember: Confidence, not cockiness.

This definitely is the Golden Rule. Beware women who like you because you're insecure (To some women that signals you are easy to control, and you don't need a girl like that). Confidence is the sexiest part of a guy. However there's a thin line between the confidence and cockiness. If you THINK you're confident, but girls keep dissing you... then yeh, you need to take it down a few notches.

But hey, anything FQ and I can do to help you out! Though she might be more helpful, seeing as how she's the one who's actually engaged. :thumbs:

Aww *hugs* But you can still give insight as to what girls WANT. :D

Yeah, overloading a girl with "cutesy" when they already know you like them just ends up screaming "STALKER" instead.

HJU romance podcast? Wow. How did the girl who's never had a bf get involved in this? :rofl:

LOL I think for our next podcast we should make a thread to take questions, maybe even have a section for love questions lol "How To Romance a Geek Girl" :laugh: that would be our most popular segment!

Uh huh... :sly:

He's actually a robot. I named him "Night."

PFFFFFFFFT! LOL!!!!!

rub the clit

Careful with that advice, since most guys don't know how to do that properly and it results in pain and terror.
 
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...Or you could be yourself, but not awkward about it. Or make your awkwardness funny. My friend does that and goes out on more dates than me. Man or woman, we all love to laugh.

yeah, I am myself in the real world. I am someone else in the forums. that's what I meant, I won't forum talk to a girl
 
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Building onto the "dont be awkward", that's a tough one for people who don't realize how they sound or look like to other people. Awkwardness can be just figity body language, to sudden silence or long pauses in responses, or even asking abrupt questions that aren't really related to where the discussion was. Keep eye contact and don't let your pupils stray below the neck unless you got a good reason. The girl doesn't want to feel like she's an object. (Unless she's a whore in a bar you're talking to, then yeah. She might like that.)

I find the most common concern for some guys is "How do I approach that pretty girl and find an excuse for a conversation without appearing awkward?"

Careful with that advice, since most guys don't know how to do that properly and it results in pain and terror.

LOL!!! Yeah, I'm not a woman or anything but... yeah. Don't grind on the poor clit like you would do to your penis during your Porn marathons..
 
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I may not have had much in actual long-term relationships, but I do have experience, and I hope that my advice can help.

For anyone on this board wanting to date:
1. BE YOURSELF. I cannot stress this enough. Women find posing someone that you're not to be turn-offs. At least, that's what my experience has told me.
2. Give the relationship time. You can't force someone into areas that they're not ready for.
3. If the other person just wants to be friends with you and nothing more, then that's fine. Friends are just as important (if not MORE) than having a significant other.
4. Realize that it's not bad being single. I mean, there are times where I don't want to be alone, but at the same time, being single is a good thing. It allows you to figure out what you really want in a relationship, among other thoughts.
5. This isn't advice from me, but from a very good friend of mine. "Don't find love. Let love find you."
 
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