Sorta big problem (about dem girls)

[KamenRiderRaze]

I've been apart of this board since Feb. and I had lots of fun. I know many of the dudes here may have some kind of experience in girls and stuff from high school. You can help out, too, ladies. So, here is my problem:

Its started Sunday, just before I headed to work. Earlier that day, I was thinking of some smooth ways to ask this one girl I like to the dance. Then my friend (lets call him Jeff) stopped by and told me some interesting new: a girl from my school likes me and would like to go to our highschool prom (May 7). I was a bit hyped and shocked from this sudden news, mostly because I didn't think any girls like me (I'm a shy dude) and said I'll think about it first. (Lets name the girl Rose) But, the problem is I didn't even knew the girl and couldn't put the name with the face.

Fast forward to Monday. Just before school, on the bus, I found out who the girl is. She is in my 5th period, public speaking, and not exactly what I pictured my date for prom to be. She's a bit talkitive and loud. But, I'm not a total shallow dude (well, just a tid bit) and it sort of messes with my plans on asking another girl the the dance. But, due to my damn 'niceness', I couldn't simply say no and I ponder different ways to get the point across, without hurting her feelings. This girl's friend (we'll name here Tonya), who is apparently going out with my friend who told me the news, its really putting the pressure on me. Its like, if I say no, she'll die or something, but I'm also afraid that I'll won't enjoy myself and end up wasting my money and she won't have a good time.

Flip to Tuesday and part of today. Tonya is really making feel guilty if I even consider saying no to Rose. I'm getting stressed out and don't know what to do. I try to explain to Tonya that she's better off with some else, because I was kind of considering not to go or she could just go alone...you don't really need a date,right? But, nope, she shrieked out loud, "You got to go. She'll cry if you don't!" Damn, I hate my conscience, and told Tonya that I'll think about it...give me time. So, here I am, typing to you wonderful people, asking for any help available. I suck at talking to girls and I'm too damn nice, which can be a burden sometimes. Thanks for reading this long story and sorry for any spelling and grammar errors. peace easy. :shakefist :disappoin

 

[Ragna "D" BloodEdge]

I say be honest with this girl, man. If you're not really that hot on going with her, then it's better if you tell her now than risk probably wrecking a potential good time at your prom and hurting her feelings even worse.

 

[Forever Knight]

Go with the girl who likes you.

 

[Bolt]

Go for the girl you like.

There's no point in doing something you don't want to do knowing that you don't want to do it and therefore causing yourself grief. Besides, I don't think Rose would feel any better about it either if she knew you were just going with her out of pity or because you feel obligated. Whatever you decide to do, keep your cool and be compassionate. That's what really matters.

 

[MegaRyu124x]

This is hard. Hmm...

 

[Judge Faiz]

Without reading your actual problem, I'm gonna say, forget girls! They're nothing but trouble.
Instead, show your affections towards something else...say beer, or even a blow-up doll Those don't cheat on you, or give you any other headaches.
Or you can just do what I did....fall in lust....ummm...I mean love, with a hot Japanese girl that you're never going to actually meet in your life...but that doesn't stop me from drooling over her pics in the Henshin Hottie Thread. :confused2

No...wait...you know what? On second thought, don't follow any of my advice, and just follow your heart.

-This post was brought to you by someone who is very bored at work, and only has an hour left until he leaves-


-RF

 

[VengeanceGOD]

Ok, here's a question.

At any point, during this entire ordeal, has any business been conducted without your friend or her friend involved? You know, just the two of you?

Take the girl out BEFORE prom. Go to the movies with her or something. See what it's like. Then decide.

 

[Kyusaku]

Ok, here's a question.

At any point, during this entire ordeal, has any business been conducted without your friend or her friend involved? You know, just the two of you?

Take the girl out BEFORE prom. Go to the movies with her or something. See what it's like. Then decide.

Indeed, test the waters before you go in for the big swim. She might not be that bad.

 

[Hariken]

Go with the one that looks hotter. j/k

I say ask the girl you wanted to ask first and if she rejects you then go with "Rose". Being nice is cool and all but you have to do what's right for yourself first. Going out with Rose simply because you pity her might lead to a night you might wanna forget. Do what you feel but I say leave "Rose" as "Plan B".

 

[Master P]

I don't think it's fair that you get stuck going with a girl you don't like just because your buddy's girlfriend is pressuring you into it. You don't deserve that- you deserve to go with the girl YOU want.

Having said that, if you get to know Rose better, and you think you could have a great time together, then take her. It would make her prom really special, and that **** means WAY more to girls than it does to us guys. Some girls dream about their senior proms all their lives.

If you do let Rose down, do it kindly. And for the love of God, if you ask the girl you like and she says no or already has a date, DO NOT go back to Rose and say "Hey! Guess what! I can take you to prom now!" Be a gentleman, dude. That's always the way to go.

Just my .02, that's all.

-Master P