Does it harm you? Does the idea of another group of people who continue to perpetuate an ideology different to you hurt you in anyway? I have no problem with women being inferior or even superior to me, it doesnt bother me one bit. I come from the Hispanic culture where that is the norm. And yes, for someone who has grown up in the US and sees this, it does bother me but that is how it is. It doesnt bother the people that are like that, so who am I to complain to other people or them about what I think to believe is wrong.
You are right, i did use the wrong word for that, it is nurturing. And yes I totally agree with you that people tend to follow the way things are, but is that wrong? Do you have the right to tell someone its wrong, when it works for them.