Something I gotta ask Gays..

[Kenori]

Oh okay well that explains a lot. I'm glad you could come to terms with yourself. I'm glad you can pride yourself in who you truly are or who you truly want to be.

Do you feel like you find androgyny something appealing or sexy to you or most other gay people? Do you think that's mostly why?

Androgyny for damn sure. I love a girly looking boy or a boyish girl. I think thats definitely part of it.

Why do you think traps are so popular. Its not just Bridget that everyone is gay for...

 

[Painted_Outlaw]

I didn't mean it about you, but now I know you aren't mature.

Uh, how could it not be about him.....

I'll just be out and out honest about it.

He has emerged.

Saying it right after him, makes it seem like it's about him.

 

[KouAidou]

I'm pretty sure he meant "He has emerged" in reference to Kenori being the much-alluded-to "Kura's gay friend whom she should be asking about this," not as being an immature person.

 

[Oedipus 3000]

I asked my brother this one time after meeting one of his boyfriends (which I couldn't stand.) I asked "why the hell do you like girly men when you're gay? you're supposed to like men!?"

He told me "well, I don't know. maybe it's a relationship dynamic or something. Maybe because each relationship HAS to have a Sadist/masochistic duality to it (which pissed me off because I was the one who told him.). Maybe nature made me more attractive towards feminine men because we aren't actually gay, we are just herd thinners, we are still acting in the same hetero manner, the bitch/butch concept, but with two penises. Those are only answers I have, and only half answers because they raise more questions then answering them and I don't know really why I do, why I have that preference. I just do. That's the best possible answer I have."

I'm going purely on memory here, and it really doesn't answer any questions, but that's what he told me long long ago. It's just like wondering why some white women like black guys so much. Maybe it's just preference, maybe it's more. Hell if I have a really good answer, only maybe education guesses and I don't think alot of people do.

 

[KouAidou]

^ I would speculate that social conditioning has as much to do with it as well. Even little gay boys and girls are inundated with the heterosexual ideal of romance through movies, books, and TV: big strong masculine partner defends/dominates small weak feminine partner.

Not every gay coupling reflects that, just as not every heterosexual one does. But I imagine it's hard to break free of that "idea" of how a relationship should be, even when the actual genders reflected are different from your own.

 

[Oedipus 3000]

^ of course, It's hard to break mental programming that has been subliminal since prehistoric times, with the hunter/gatherer type of thing. I mean, I think most healthy relationships have that dualistic nature to it and, like all "memes", it's hard to break. not all follow the same drummer but a good portion do so generalizations must be used at times like this.

But, like most if not all Meme theories, it brings up more questions then answers that doesn't really solve anything. Yet that the best I can come up with at the moment.