Girlfriend advice.

[JFC]

Dont ask a bunch of dudes who are super into bug men with scarfs and brightly colored ranger teams about "girlfriend" advice is my advice to you.

:laugh:

 

[SaikoDragon]

Dont ask a bunch of dudes who are super into bug men with scarfs and brightly colored ranger teams about "girlfriend" advice is my advice to you.

lmao exactly.

 

[toranoko]

How about searching your childhood friend that is a girl?

Then ask her out...

I'm not sure about this. If you think there is a mutual attraction, then go ahead and try. But you do not want to make her think you only want to be with her because she's the only girl you talk to. (I'm not saying this about you, I'm just saying how I've felt about some guys. )

But yeah, no girlfriend for me here, but I can tell you things that guys have done wrong in trying to, uh, woo me I guess?

1) Do not confess your love to a girl you've only known for a short time. Makes you seem too desperate and emotionally unsure.
2) Guilt tripping is never nice. Don't try and make a girl feel like she owes you something.
3) Never say "don't tell your friends about me," because you'll come off as a scary stalker.
4) No sappy things like love poems.

Of course, uh, mileage may vary. I know my sister loved this little poem she got from a friend, but it was from a guy that she had already liked. It was totally corny, but I guess love/lust blinds all.

So I guess this is where some better advice comes in. Friends, make them. Get to know some girls. Learn what their interests are, see if they share any of yours. If a girl does, great. If not, it is fine. Maybe you can try and get into a similar hobby, but be honest if it isn't your cup of tea. I don't see how lying will get you far.

Uh.. Yeah, just get to know someone. Well. Not from like, other sources (friend of a friend, etc) but straight from the person. For me, it is really nice to know that someone is really listening when I'm talking. And if you get to know someone well, you'll learn what they like. If you learn what they like, it is easier to make them feel special and happy.

 

[SaikoDragon]

1) Do not confess your love to a girl you've only known for a short time. Makes you seem too desperate and emotionally unsure.
2) Guilt tripping is never nice. Don't try and make a girl feel like she owes you something.
3) Never say "don't tell your friends about me," because you'll come off as a scary stalker.
4) No sappy things like love poems.

I would agree with that 100%. Nicely said, Toranoko. I always preferred to make friends instead of straight up dating. It makes things a bit easier, no one feels obligated to do anything for each other and you get to know them a lot faster because there's no pressure to "impress".

But everyone has a different way of going about it. Still, the best advice is to just go out and socialize.

 

[KamenGrappler]

lol, I'm glad ppl agree and aren't mad.

Here's some more advice -- Having trouble finding a gf? Lower your standards. I kno how it sounds, but you might just be shooting too high buddy.

And for my last bit: Talk, not excessively or anything, but a lot of dudes clam up around girls. Try not to think of them as girls, and just talk to them like you would your friends. Women are like dogs and bees, they can smell fear so you need to try and be calm.

 

[Sho-saka]

Why not simply be yourself?

Try going out to social spots instead of meeting someone anonymous online, like a bar or something, talk to some girl that you like, just tell about yourself briefly and be honest to her. Lying about yourself isn't going nowhere and if she finds out, followed by her parents, your parents, your family, etc; then you could say goodbye to your lasting relationship.

 

[CaptainB_Money]

Dont be to much of a flirt. if you have the power to make almost sweet words out of every other word you say then only use that power ON HER. i fucked up recently and she eventually stopped talking to me and BANG EXCEED CHARGE ZOOM CRASH!. its over.

 

[Z-Unit]

myspace.

 

[Ladymercury]

I've been trying to find a girlfriend for a long time now. So do you guys have any advice?

Stop watching Power Rangers.

I mean, honestly, though I don't care what type of guys I date... A guy that's like heavily into geeky fandoms is a turn off for me. Its probably because they're so open and excite about it that it would embaress me if I was like out in public with them.

Yeah, at cons and stuff is fine ... but if I'm going out to eat I wouldn't want to have my bf reciting lines from a Power Rangers/Toku show.

Not say you're like that, but a step forward would be to seperate the fandom from the social life.

 

[Z-Unit]

Seriously this isn't the best place to be asking for GF help.


-OK your best way of finding a GF is by asking all your close friends and buds if they might know a good match for you and getting to know more people.