Yes. The house is in my name. Not just in my name. Under my living grandmother's name. My aunt lula is living with us. we're processing to turn this house into vacation home.
In all fairness, My aunt pays water bills, my grandmother pays light bills, and I get to pay the rest.
Why would I turn down the gifts? They're rarely giving me the gifts. Mostly I buy the things on my own.
So the house is in both your names? If so, then it's just just YOUR house..
DEAR GOD... Why the hell did you even start this thread? You bitch about them giving you gifts, and then you say you are ok with them giving you gifts. Dear god man are you bipolar?
So the house is in both your names? If so, then it's just just YOUR house..
DEAR GOD... Why the hell did you even start this thread? You bitch about them giving you gifts, and then you say you are ok with them giving you gifts. Dear god man are you bipolar?
There's ways you can go about it without sounding like an ungrateful jerk...
You know...saying stuff like "I appreciate the thought, but don't spend any money on me...PLEASE use that cash to pay bills or donate to charity or something"
Yes. The house is in my name. Not just in my name. Under my living grandmother's name. My aunt lula is living with us. we're processing to turn this house into vacation home.
In all fairness, My aunt pays water bills, my grandmother pays light bills, and I get to pay the rest.
Why would I turn down the gifts? They're rarely giving me the gifts. Mostly I buy the things on my own.
There's ways you can go about it without sounding like an ungrateful jerk...
You know...saying stuff like "I appreciate the thought, but don't spend any money on me...PLEASE use that cash to pay bills or donate to charity or something"
SK I honestly think you need to talk to a professional and not us. It genuinely seems like you have some unresolved issues you need to work through. :sly:
bro...that was kinda harsh, no need to call challenge him on his mental health. But I still think you should donate the money to charity, or save up the money that you would've spent and buy your fam a big present they can all use.