No you don't lol, cuz we're mean as hell to each other even though we love each other lol
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Also, like I said, I don't think she's stringing you along. I think she's just not ready for a solid commitment and forcing it's gonna cause problems. Also she's old enough to make her own life decisions even if they're seemingly bad. If you aren't comfortable just being a friend then walk away. Don't put your life on hold for one person. I suggest staying her friend and show her that she should grow up a little. Don't go with the common mentality that if you can't have her, just bail. If you care about her, then be a real friend to her. Don't just tell her to bugger off just because you can't have her at this point in time.
from my point of view and most people on here your totally being used, its like she has you set up as the 'saftey net' you know for if the **** hits the fan, you dont wanna be that its selling yourself short.
After all there is bound to be someone out there who will want you for you and not **** around with other guys and then say the BS excuses she has to you.
Try having sex with her next time to show that you are not safe, she'll either stop wanting to hang out with you which is good for you or she'll have sex with you in which case she's still playing with you but at least you have a **** buddy which is also good for you .
Just get out of the status quo or you'll be living that for many months over and over again. Anyways while I've never been in your situation I've been in one were the situation was totally different but it was basically the same in some ways so yeah, you just have to act on it to get out of the status quo and find out if it works or not.
you know what... im done.. like with trying to find a someone.. this is stupid, I put myself through all this bullshit just to get a chance at a cool girl...ugh /FACE... /DESK...
Dude, I know you probably have heard this before but... there are plenty of Fish in the sea. Don't give up just because you placed your bets on a girl that doesn't want to be with you, because thats just what I've gathered so far. She doesn't know how to tell you 'no' without hurting you, so she works around it, and whats worse is she's let you in close and probably doesn't know how to take it back now.
Or she's just not that nice of a lady. Really, don't give up on meeting someone just because of your experiences with this girl. I'm sure you're a nice guy and there are plenty of other girls you can meet
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