Do you believe in divorce?

[FangireQueen]

This... this is just no good.

Agreed, This thread needs to be closed down. SEntinel King has too bad of a habit of starting ****

 

[Vash the Stampede]

Well now, you can't just request a thread to be closed just because somebody said something that you didn't want to hear. Now, if somebody said something directed towards you, then that would be different.

We all have opinions and I agree that some people should've worded them better.

 

[FangireQueen]

Well now, you can't just request a thread to be closed just because somebody said something that you didn't want to hear. Now, if somebody said something directed towards you, then that would be different.

We all have opinions and I agree that some people should've worded them better.

It's not just that I don't like it. It's that this thread is not appropriate. I merely request for it to be closed to bring it to the attention of the mods. They can decide what they think from there. However it's a thread that really is doing nothing more than starting **** so it shouldn't be here.

 

[Kura]

I personally don't know if this thread should be closed or not.. because the actual subject of discussion isn't necessarily bad.. I think people are just prone to take the opinions said here super personally.. (due to personal experience, etc)

If that can be avoided, then I don't see the problem right?

 

[SaikoDragon]

Agreed, This thread needs to be closed down. SEntinel King has too bad of a habit of starting ****

Down, Fangire, no need to start a riot. The thread is fine. He was asking for a discussion. You seem very offended by the topic of divorce, and probably because it's been a dominant force in your life, and that's ok. If it upsets you, then just don't waltz into the thread.

As for the topic: I think divorce is too increasingly necessary these days. But it is still a necessity. It's very sad because it's a growing statistic that most relationships end in divorce which leads to many kids in school now without both of their parents.

 

[toranoko]

Guys,

Upon my curiosity, do you believe in divorce? If ya do, well I don't believe in divorce at all. I believe in love that overcome everything.

Just curious, is there a specific reason you're asking this question?

It's not that I think this topic is offensive, it just seems like a question that was spurred on by something else.

Anyways, this is obviously a personal question. People have had different experiences which, of course, shape their opinions.

I'm not going to go into a long explanation or reasoning, but my answer is yes.

 

[Sentaifan'07 Xman]

People often mistake passion for love. It's an error we all can make.

Love can indeed overcome everything, however, only if it is truly love.

I would have to agree, if we truly love the person we care about, we should always overcome any obstacle, but if we feel as if we are out of love, then we probably don't deserve to find love and that we should drown our sorrows in booze and loneliness.

 

[Sentinel King]

Finally to answer the question why I ask all of you. And I don't want this to be labeled as offensive thread, but here's why.

Here's what I told my beloved friend:

Not to be rude, but being young has nothing to do with it. People being divorce in the process is wrong, it's just that why do people married? For a love? Or is it for money?

My grandparents never got divorced in the first place, sure they fought a lot, in the end, they love each other very much no matter what the situation turns out to be. Perhaps my grandfather don't believe in divorce as well? Love teach us and grow up to endure the pain no matter how hurt it must be.

And I have already experienced that. When I was teenager, I was a fool to be so blind in love. Though that getting married would be so easy, but no, it's very tough. You have to be very committed to one other and honor the vows you swear to took upon it.

Now I'm getting older and already becomes very mature. Love is what it has taught me to endure the relationship no matter how bad it must be, one must forgive one other through the terrible ordeals.

And I never cheated on my previous relationships, but they weren't lasted longer the way I wanted them to be. Bookworm, I'm ready to getting married in the process in the future.

To me, Divorce is not the option to get out of the marriage. Divorce is wrong, you know? Unless you're marrying right person you love the most in your heart, that you can endure throughout the relationship itself.

You, my friend, being young has nothing to do with it. Only love can teach you to endure it all. That's how I'm matured now.

Just to express my opinion on all this divorce issue, that's all. I hope you understand what I'm saying here.

AND

I hate the fact that people are getting married for all the wrong reasons. Marriage is not a toy to begin with, it's very serious commitment right before god's very eyes!

Divorce is banned in Philippines, because of Christianity is the largest religious that strongly against the divorces itself. So now California is in the process to protects traditional marriages, they want to ban divorce.

I'm in all for it to ban divorce. I'm catholic, you know? Marriage is very sacred to begin with, it's something that people shouldn't toy to begin with.

Again, this is not offensive thread that we're discussing here. You have to understand that marriage is very sacred, people who got married for wrong reasons. That's what it got them divorced in the first place, for a example, people got married for only money, it was never about love, that bothers me a lot.

I remembered the reality show called, "For love or money." It was very offensive show ever to be made. That being part of wrong reasons why people got married to go after money only. So marriage is not toy to begin with! Marriage itself is for people who love each other very much and wants to stay together forever until they died.

I thought that love teach us to be more mature than we were young? That's how love supposed to teach us in the process to learn to love one other, rather than being controlled husband/wife, you know? Just marrying to right person for the right reasons, then we have no problem, right?

I don't want to insult you all, or feel offended that way, please understand that I hate people for being divorced for wrong reasons whatsoever, but I understand very well when it comes to spouse abuse, that's being part of the right reason to divorce to get out of abuse relationship. In a sake of children, of their safety from one parent who could hurt them. All that for the right reason to get out of the marriage.

That's why I was very upset with frivolous divorces.

 

[Raida|23]

Agreed, This thread needs to be closed down. SEntinel King has too bad of a habit of starting ****

The true definition of him is another, though. About the topic, there's not too much to say without insultin someone, especially when I start to see people wantin to deprive people of a choice, so...

 

[Daikamonohashi]

Look, I'm a hopeless romantic but even I think your notions of love are ridiculously unrealistic. Love is supposed to keep you married no matter how bad it gets? What if you don't love the other person anymore?

I'll repost my earlier thoughts:

Maybe you'll say, "well, they just aren't truly in love," but how the hell are they supposed to know? Love is the Queen Bitch of emotions and it's hard as hell to know whether or not your love with someone will manage to last or not. If you're 85 and still in love with your spouse then great-freaking-job, here's your gold medal. You're awesome. But then what about the people who aren't "idiotic" enough to get a divorce but really hate each other and only tolerate each other because divorce would only ruin their public image somehow?

YOu don't seem to understand that many marriages that end in divorce DO start in love, not just in money or other things like that. To think that all marriages fail because they "weren't based on love" is utterly absurd.