Being in Love again...and what to do?

[Forever Knight]

Alrighty, I got a problemo.

I've met this girl last year, we've hung out many times, and just started re-hanging out and I want her. Not just sexually but I find I'm not myself until i've talked to her on the phone or whatever.

I feel like I'm in grade 11 again.

The girl is amazing and is definatley a catch. The only problem is, she is gorgeous and I'm a jealous type so when other fuckers hit on her I'll go ape **** nuts and revive Hitler to cause another World War which is something I wanna do my best to avoid.

I need help from everyone reading this, big time. I think this is the first time I've asked for help non-toku wise.

 

[Henshiner]

On a serious note, you should try and work out this feeling of jealousy with your friends or a loved one. Plus, if you do date, being honest to her with your jealousy would be a best preemptive against her getting PO'd at you.

Relationships are about accepting your partner's faults.

 

[Forkboy]

Dude, I'm in 11th grade, and I take that remark of yours offensively!
Haha, jkjk.
But seriously.

Take a shot at it and ask her out man. Once people start seeing you two together, I doubt anyones going to hit on her. Besides, jealousy is natural for everyone. You don't want to see someone else being that way to the person you love =/ I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now, and I still get jealous even from comments she gets on her myspace, but we still love eachother like crazy and she doesn't mind, because she gets the same way too. Who knows, this girl may be just as jealous as you are. You'll never know until you experience it.

So again, I suggest you just try it ^^b and if it doesn't work out....don't blame me XD

 

[bluesilver12]

I don't know how much help I can be since I prefer to be a loner but I will do my best.

You have to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself: Why I am such a jealous type? Dig in your past. Do some soul searching and you will probably find the answer. You need to do this because if this girl is really important to you got to calm yourself down otherwise you could lose her. I'm not saying let other guys walk over you and be ignored but you shouldn't raise hell every time some stupid guy tries to hit on her. There are other ways to handle that.

Well that all I have to say. Good luck.

 

[Bolt]

FK, you and I are a lot alike, so take it from me: if you're going to pursue something with this girl, you're going to have to make some concessions.

You need to let her know how you feel and what you're thinking, frequently. I know it can be tedious, but girls are very responsive to it and it really helps to keep things going smoothly. Communication is key; if you're feeling jealous, let her know. If you're feeling horny, let her know. If you have a problem of any kind, let her know, because it's when couples stop communicating that the guessing starts, then the insecurities, and then the breakups.

 

[JFC]

^ Best advice ever. Listen to him FK. :thumbs:

 

[Forkboy]

~SNIPPED~

I completely agree. My girlfriend asks me to always let her know when I feel one way or another, and I want the same from her.

As Bolt said, it's very important.

 

[Impulse87]

bolt is the master at love!

just remember you said it yourself, she's a catch so it's only natural that other guys pursue her, jealousy is normal and in a way it shows her that you're romantically interested

 

[Takuya]

I doubt there are any guys out there that can help being jealous. See if you can find a happy medium…if some other dude is hitting on her and you don’t do anything, that’ll be a major turn-off for her. But you definitely don’t want to cause another Holocaust. It doesn’t sound like you two are incredibly close (my bad if I’m wrong), so make sure to keep talking to her. And like Bolt said, if the relationship starts (or even before it does) establish that sense of communication. I’m sure she’ll like that, and it’ll help both of you feel secure.

Good luck dude.

 

[Forever Knight]

Sadly, some Scott Hall, Kevin Nash, Kurt Angle, AJ Styles, Robert Roode, and the sexy Ms. Traci Brooks calmed me alot tonight.

Of course Bolt is right, he's always right. He's the ****. Why do you all think I make fun of him in many of my posts, it's for promo ****. You ain't fucking with Bolt. I'm ghostwriting his autobiography btw.

But yea, thanks for the help we shall see how **** goes. I hate this love ****. I really do but there is nothing u can do when I catches you. ****.