Like I said before, at ASMR I can recall some threads that were more like a chat room then a forum thread where you'd look at the time stamps and realize that these people were replying to each other within seconds and for hours at a time. What's funny is after five years of being an active member there (never reached my 5,000 post mark

) I honestly don't miss it. (The site shut down when the owners went poof.) It would be the same for here and for every site I belong to - even my work and clan.
For me, my home isn't online on any forums. It's with my husband and kids. No forum or online friend will ever take their place. It's pretty sad when I have seen people put more stock in online friendships then real life ones (again, I'm thinking of past posts on ASMR... oh it was bad at times). Of course it's different if your online friends are also your real life friends. That is so different but unless you've met the person or plan to meet someone then how can you consider someone you don't know their real name or they don't know your real name as your friend?
And so what if someone gets tired of a place. Big whoopie ding dong. I get tired of my clan mates from time to time and have "left" the clan for months at a time but it doesn't mean I hate them. I fight with them often and call them assholes all the time. LOL It really doesn't mean I hate them and eventually go back. Hell, I spent the last six months away from them and eventually came back. I may have disagreed with my friends, fought with them, even been furious with them or think that he or she is a complete idiot at that moment in time but is doesn't necessarily mean anything.
And personally, don't take this wrong way guys, but I don't consider anyone here at HJU to be my friend.
Acquaintance,
yes but
friend,
no. I can only think of two places where I can consider my online friends to be my real life friends and frankly even at those two places only a handful would I consider a real life friend despite the fact that some of the guys I've known online for almost a decade. Let's put it this way. If I know your real name and you know my real name the chances that I consider you a friend is high. I think only one person here at HJU knows my real name because I told him (and I know his) when we were friends and that person happens to be KingRanger.
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