I agree with everyone here that 4th wall breakers are not doing the show any good, they really just bring the show a screeching halt. If they were better written or meshed with the episodes better they may be tolerable. Though I hope in the second season that they have taken the criticism and just drop them altogether.
As for the show proper I like how it is addressing the new reality of Spider-Man. Even though I still think making him (and Wolverine) Avengers wasn't a good idea, it is the new status quo. Spider-Man is now a team player, he is an Avenger and since due to legal reason he can't be in the movies they want to present it somewhere else.