Regarding Japan..

[kyo28]

wouldn't "footsies" result in the girl kicking you back and screaming YAMERO!!!

Hmm, I don't think so ... there aren't that many british girls that speak Japanese.

Lame jokes aside, I would give you the same advice MaraJade did. To sum it up:
- Try not to obsess too much over asian girls. There are good and bad girls in any part of the world. Trust me, not all asian girls are 'Godsends'
- Work on your social skills: start with friends and before you know it, you'll have made contact with lots of girls
- Relocating to another country, especially for the wrong reasons (I obsess over those girls, I love this or that TV program from that country, etc) is usually not the best incentive. Before I went to work to Japan I visited there 6 times. Even then I was hesitant to go and only did it to advance my career and use the opportunity to further my studies ... but I would never move to another country because it happens to be the point of origin for my hobby or whatever it is I enjoy in my free time.

 

[Z-Unit]

Most girls don't like love letters, it makes them think there's some crazed loser out there some where staring at her while she does simple everyday task. It also makes you look bad when they find out who sends them, they'll think you're a creepy loser who's too scared to walk up to her and say what's on your mind. So if you see a girl you like somewhere, walk up right to them. And say what's on your mind.

''You're very attractive to me. I'd like to get to know you.''

Make those your first words to the girl you see that you like. At the mall, walk up to her and say those first words.

 

[Black Ranger RX]

- Try not to obsess too much over asian girls. There are good and bad girls in any part of the world. Trust me, not all asian girls are 'Godsends'

Can't help it.. :disappoin :nono:
While you're right about not all of them looking pretty, there's just too many I've seen and found attractive.

- Work on your social skills: start with friends and before you know it, you'll have made contact with lots of girls

That's the problem. Friends, like.. where are they!! I'm like, a lonely soul here (which.. may be another reason why I admitted I wanted to buy a CareBear over at the other thread :nono: ). The only people I get to talk to apart from occaisionally my parents and my boss, are people who are like really far away from me and I can only speak to them on the internet (EG: You guys).

I was gonna ask another question about Japan, but.. I forgot what is is now. I think I'll leave it and come back to that..

 

[kyo28]

Can't help it.. :disappoin :nono:
While you're right about not all of them looking pretty, there's just too many I've seen and found attractive.

See, that's just it! I'm not talking about how they look, I'm talking about their character. A lot of Asian girls can have difficult characters to get along with, just as it can happen with western girls.
e.g. a friend of mine is living together with his Chinese girlfriend. She's really nice and all but totally despises anything that has to do with anime or video games. My friend used to be an avid gamer and because of her had to go 'cold turkey' ... I get e-mails from him on a regular basis, just screaming 'I want to game!' ...
What I mean is, you should focus on finding someone that matches your character. Looks can be important at first but honestly that's not what you'll build a lasting relationship on.