Regarding Japan..

[Michael Joe Red Mask]

Then maybe I'll get to speak to more people, and who knows maybe I'll meet someone nice but til then it's just me, my bedroom, my computer and my Tokusatsu.

Don't forget about your left hand as well.

If I simply walked infront of a complete stranger and flirted with her the only result I'd get is to be told to **** off back. It just doesn't work. How would you like it if someone you don't even know ran up to you and went "HIIII SEXY!!!!".

I would personally fly to England just to see you say that to a girl.

 

[Black Ranger RX]

So.... What is proper flirting?

 

[Michael Joe Red Mask]

So.... What is proper flirting?

Here's a starter...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flirting

 

[KamenRiderZero]

So.... What is proper flirting?

You know.....stuff like "hi" and casual conversation.....nothing too special, and no way in hell is it anything like "HIIII SEXY!"

I would personally fly to England just to see you say that to a girl.

Can I come too? :laugh:

 

[Black Ranger RX]

* Eye contact
* "Protean" signals, such as touching one's hair
* Casual touches, specifically, what is known as kino
* Smiling suggestively
* Winking
* Sending and receiving notes, poems, mixtapes, or written music
* Saucy teasing
* Footsies, the "feet under the table" practice
* Giving gifts such as chocolates.
* "Flirt fighting" (usually more common with younger people)

Hmm..

Winking, sending love letters, giving chocolates..

wouldn't "footsies" result in the girl kicking you back and screaming YAMERO!!!

Guess I could try these but then I could walk home with a big black eye..

I would personally fly to England just to see you say that to a girl.

Afterwards would you then fly back to Japan (or wherever you live), or would you explore the rest of England?

 

[KamenRiderZero]

Hmm..

Winking, sending love letters, giving chocolates..

wouldn't "footsies" result in the girl kicking you back and screaming YAMERO!!!

Guess I could try these but then I could walk home with a big black eye..

That is why you work up towards those things. Start with eye contact, smiling, chatting, etc.

 

[Riser]

Man, Rising! You're 22 and you don't know these things? You've got some catching up to do...

 

[Black Ranger RX]

That is why you work up towards those things. Start with eye contact, smiling, chatting, etc.

oooookay, maybe I'll try these next time I'm.. maybe somewhere where I'll be working with girls maybe..

 

[Bolt]

How would you like it if someone you don't even know ran up to you and went "HIIII SEXY!!!!".

A group of girls did that to me a couple nights ago when I was helping work a concession stand at a football game, I got a kick out of it. Not that that helps you become a better flirter or whatever the point of this thread was, but you asked, so.

 

[MaraJade]

If I simply walked infront of a complete stranger and flirted with her the only result I'd get is to be told to **** off back. It just doesn't work. How would you like it if someone you don't even know ran up to you and went "HIIII SEXY!!!!".

Oh well, guess I'm better off sitting infront of the computer until the day I get a proper job. Then maybe I'll get to speak to more people, and who knows maybe I'll meet someone nice but til then it's just me, my bedroom, my computer and my Tokusatsu.

No. Just no. RSR, how old are you again? (Don't answer that; it's a rhetorical question). Ok for starters, forget girls, forget asians, and learn to function and interact in society as normal. You don't go up to someone - girl or guy like that. Heck, forget flirting. You just don't interact with people that way in society.

Flirting, unless you're at a club or something, is not an in-your-face thing. Even then, only amateurs really take such approaches. The key is subtlety. Also, seriously, you want a girl friend that badly? Forget the "girl" in that word, and just focus on being friends. You try waaaaaaay too hard and not in ways that imply flirtation, but scream straight up sexual harrassment. Tone it down, man.

I really suggest you do yourself a favor and get off the computer, stash your Toku - It's NOT the real world no matter how much you might think or want it to be, and get a job. Heck, it can be anything - from doing yardwork to working at McDee's, it doesn't matter.

You want to get out of England that badly? Talking to people on forums about "how's life in XYZ Country" is not enough - just barely scratching the surface. Research it. I mean the Internet is littered with resources for that, and if you want to pickup and relocate that badly - your penchant for the women of that country really doesn't fly with anyone, let alone any potential employers who would hire you. What would help you most now and what you need, is to find out how the world works and to interact with people face to face and not behind a screen.