Need advice on romantic problem

[TalonRanger]

How could you fall in love with someone on facebook?.

that's like saying how can you obsess over a Japanese idol which you have no contact..well maybe the fanmail service but whats the chances of them reading your mail? lol

and yeah it's nearly 3am here and I'm supposed to be scheduling the office's photography projects and i'm here replying to this thread..great work Steven~ lol

 

[Faded.Memories]

Don't do it. She's taken....you're just wrecking yourself.

If you really REALLY love her...wait. If she breaks up with him, she's fair game.

 

[Impulse87]

the biggest question is, do you live near her? Because if you do, then the relationship crap becomes easier, simple physical contact such as holding hands are extremely important especially in the early stages

personally i wouldn't really bother because she is in a relationship

 

[Kivat]

dude, tell her what you feel about her. is either do or die.

What sucks is when you do, you die. :disappoin

sometimes.

 

[Forever Knight]

that's like saying how can you obsess over a Japanese idol which you have no contact..well maybe the fanmail service but whats the chances of them reading your mail? lol

Umm no it isn't. Obsessing over an actress and "falling in love" with someone you've never met are 2 different things.

 

[TalonRanger]

EDIT: meh screw it, I can't bother arguing, it's 3am, I'm supposed to be at work in 5 hours time -_-

point being, don't chase after her, you'll end up being hurt

 

[FangireQueen]

From a chick point of view just wait. If you try to pursue her while she's still attached then there are a few things that can happen... 1) She takes your feelings as a compliment and ignores it. 2) She gets freaked out and pulls away from you. 3) She cheats on her b/f with you, and you wind up with someone who has no problem with cheating on their boyfriend which you do NOT want.

My advice is just wait it out. It may not be the most comfortable option for you, but it's the most digified. To a girl it'll sound WAY more romantic is after they've broken up and you've given her some time you jsut say "You know i've been in love with you all along" Trust me, wins brownie points everytime ^_^

Hope it helps

 

[lazycoconut]

To a girl it'll sound WAY more romantic is after they've broken up and you've given her some time you jsut say "You know i've been in love with you all along" Trust me, wins brownie points everytime ^_^

Hope it helps

I second this ...

I have tried going after people while they were still in relationships and they all said I was "desperate," "pathetic" and other such things. It doesn't reflect well on you. Also, someone who is too keen to leave her current boyfriend for you might do the same thing to you later on ...

 

[Mr. Underachiever]

Put it in her butt. Just do it.

 

[SaikoDragon]

I have a romantic problem and I need some advice...

Basically, I've fallen in love [not heads over heels or over the top in love] with this girl who I've known for quite a while on Facebook.

We have a lot in common, she's a really cool person and we always have fun when chatting online.

The only problem is that she already has a boyfriend even though they're having their ups and downs, relationship-wise...

I'm not the type of guy who'd steal another guy's girl even if said girl was a hot babe as it just makes the guys concerned look bad at the end of the day, and besides I'd rather be with a girl who's single already instead.

I've never had much luck with the opposite sex and I'm definitely not going to go all out and confess my feelings towards her as I'd rather be her friend than act like a idiot towards but I don't know what my next course of action should be...

Life doesnt work like it does in the animes, remember that. Just because you confess feelings doesnt mean it will make everything magical and set destiny in motion.

How will your confession affect her? Think about how she might feel about it. She knows a guy on Facebook who randomly tells her "hey I love you!" That might scare her away.

Is she happy with her current BF? Does she confide in you when she has problems?

All you should do is be there. Be her friend and show her that when her BF isnt around, you can be. You can show a woman that you are interested without telling her explicitly. Flirt a bit, support her, and do fun things.