I don't understand why people do this...

People that cheat are scum. People that cheat and lie about it like you described are lower than scum.
K-Kakashi-sensei...?

I don't understand why people do this to their girlfriends/fiancée's/wives, or boyfriends/fiancé's/husbands, & think that they can get away with it.

Guy has a one night stand with another woman, & later gets a call from her: "I'm pregnant with your baby." Guy gets shocked/scared by this & doesn't know what to do, but tries to cover it up somehow (like asking her to have an abortion. Other woman says no, she's keeping her child).

Later, his girlfriend finds out about the other woman & her having his boyfriend's baby, & is ready to leave him. Guy says to her, "Baby, I'm sorry, I didn't mean for this to happen! Please don't leave me!", etc., but she doesn't want to hear it as she's either very much in despair from the news of possibly having to keep seeing the other woman &/or their child or is too angry at him for it. So she says something like, "You better get with that other girl (or, "get with your baby's mama") or find some other woman, because I'm not taking you back. I'm sorry." Then she dumps the guy & moves on.

So not only does the guy has no girlfriend, but he's also got to deal with his baby's mama that he doesn't truly love, along with their love child, for the rest of his life. Tough luck.

Now, in the case of women, they do the same thing like guys do, but the difference is that she can easily cover up her pregnancy & not have their boyfriends/husbands know about them having sex with the other man by having them sleep with them. But sooner or later, the boyfriend/fiancé/husband will find out that her & the other man have been having sex with each other before she got pregnant & will demand a DNA test to make sure that the child is his. Her boyfriend/husband might wind up leaving her/divorcing her as well because of it, even if it turns out that the child is his. He'll take care of the child, but he won't get back with her.

Prime example of some guys/girls who think that they can get away with it all, & not be caught or found out. What's your opinion about it?
Is...Is this Koyomi's back story?!
 
Well, in my opinion...Cheating on one's lover should not be a trend that people should follow.

But you know what's even worse that get caught red-handed by your lover....the sons and daughters hiding their pregnancies and marriages from their families, especially from their mothers and fathers.

Now isn't that sad?!
 
A cheating spouse (or boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever) is one of the most objectionable, vile creatures imaginable. My parents divorced because of an affair. It ruined my family so I definitely have a very strong hatred of cheaters.
 
There's nothing right about it.

If you want to be able to freely have intimate relations with everyone, then don't commit to any one at all. It's not even complicated.

Yeah. There is nothing wrong with a free adult making decisions about whether or not they want to have sex with someone. At least, as long as that other person is an adult capable of being responsible for themselves. Preferably one with whom they won't have to hide their business unless they're hiding in fun.

I have no sex life, and no particular interest.
 

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