How Do You Make the First Move?

[Keith Justice]

Mr. Keith Justice, where did you get those tips?

I better copy-paste those right away! I'm...having some love concerns of my own. XD

Something I wrote myself a while ago... just bits and pieces of life picked up along the way to put together a philosophy that I try to practice in everything I do. :thumbs:

 

[Faded.Memories]

I've always found that being direct as possible works well for me. Flirting and playful politeness is always a plus, but sometimes it's foolproof to just walk up to the little lady and say "this might sound crazy, but I can't stop looking at you and I decided you seem like someone I'd like to get to know. Would you like to do something with me sometime?" Girls these days are so used to subversive conversation and pickup lines that directness and honesty are generally like a breath of fresh air.

WIN. Win so hard. That would so work on me. When I was younger, I would have given anything for a guy just to tell me he thought I was something special and outright ask me on a date. :disappoin

Found out awhile ago that a guy I knew/had a crush on in high school had a crush on me too...and nothing ever came of it because neither of us said anything!

 

[Mr. Underachiever]

I've always found that being direct as possible works well for me. Flirting and playful politeness is always a plus, but sometimes it's foolproof to just walk up to the little lady and say "this might sound crazy, but I can't stop looking at you and I decided you seem like someone I'd like to get to know. Would you like to do something with me sometime?" Girls these days are so used to subversive conversation and pickup lines that directness and honesty are generally like a breath of fresh air.

You win the thread.

Something I wrote myself a while ago... just bits and pieces of life picked up along the way to put together a philosophy that I try to practice in everything I do. :thumbs:

YOU wrote that? That was pretty good, especially the last two. The first two seem easier said than done, though. :disappoin

 

[prometheus126]

It depends on the situation, is it an aquantence of yours (friend, co-worker.) or is it a female friend?

 

[Forever Knight]

Mr. Underacheiever > Chad Michael Michaels.

Go for it dude, good luck.


take pictures if possible *giggidy giggidy goo*

 

[rambo]

LOLZ. I also thought the title of the thread said "How do you make the first movie?" :laugh:

Anyways...back on topic...

I'd say go with a simple "hello" and go from there. Chances of hitting it up are, of course, 50%....but I think it's the best way to go.

You could always use pick-up lines, but be warned...chances of hitting it up are lower through that route.

:laugh: I thought it said movie too man.

You guys might remeber me making a thread a few months back about some girl i liked and i could never talk too her, well now she has a fella but theres some other girl in the year below me who has a fella but he hardly speaks 2 her but i dont know how to speak to her without making it obivous i like her :laugh:


Life sucks, it really does :anime:

 

[Punk]

When you are attracted to someone of the opposite sex (or the same sex, whatever floats your boat, I'm not here to judge), how do you approach them? What do say? What do you do? I think I might need some ideas... :disappoin

Don't sweat it, It's pretty simple.

First you need to test out the type of persona the women has by giving eye contact and a smile, if she is a nice and polite person she'll smile back or at least a half smile. Then you can go in and say hello and introduce yourself and state the reason why you approached her if there's something going at that time try to start a conversation about it. Once your conversation is over comment on her by saying "I don't mean to be rude but I must say you are very beautiful" then continue with compliments and go from there, Introduce yourself by shaking her hand or being gentlemen but not trying to hard.

Another thing is women kinda see stuff like that coming from afar and depending on the person they might say "I'm not interested" with than attitude before you can even say your name, if that does happen don't back out. Make her feel like a idiot by saying "I wasn't even coming on to you, I was just being a gentlemen but I see that's not something you have been around in your life"

they may take it and leave with an attitude or some might catch themselves and apologize.

 

[Keith Justice]

You win the thread.



YOU wrote that? That was pretty good, especially the last two. The first two seem easier said than done, though. :disappoin

First two rules are the most important. Bolt is right, but if you're not in the right frame of mine of not worrying and being able to flow with the situation, you might just come off as pushy.

It can be done, takes practice.... and it gets easier.