Well, I'm here to share the 100% Technique that will always make you the winner in the end. Here it's more specifically about getting with someone you desire, but it can actually be applied to anything in life from interviews to video games.
See if this make sense to you or not.
This Technique is 100%. If done correct, it's like the Crane Technique... there is... no defense.
Rule #1
Heart of the Samurai
When a samurai goes into battle, he thinks not of his impending victory nor does he worry about possible defeat. Neither of these two thing are on his mind as they distract one from the main purpose and that is the engagement at hand. Even thinking of victory will bring its shadow of defeat.
If you like some one and would like to approach them, whether they fall in love with you or not... is not on your mind. You will get nervous, stutter, and falter. It is only if thoughts of victory and defeat are completely gone from your mind that you can approach the situation with a clear head and be the best person that you are.
Rule #2
The Bruce Lee Technique
In Bruce Lee's "Tao of Jeet Kun Do" and in a deleted scene of "Enter the Dragon", he mentions his philosphy of fighting. "When my oppoent expands, I contract. When he contract, I expand. And when the opening presents itself, I do not strike.
The opening strikes all by itself."
This means when engaged in a situation, to flux and flow with it perfectly and be in synch with conversation and the moment. Feel it out and become comfortable. If you're following the first rule, then fear should not be and issue and becoming comfortable should be easy. And once you have this, you can best open up your intellect to flow and flux with conversation.
Be sure to pay attention to the other person. How he/she feels and what he/she things is very important or else you're not fluxing and flowing, you're pushing against the current and disrupting.
Expand and contract and you'll be able to have control of the situation, without forcing the situation.
The ending (maybe even symbolic) kiss... will happen all by itself.
Rule #3
The Morpheus Rule
Morpheus once told Neo, "Whatever happens, happens... and could not have happened any other way."
Which means if you have followed the above two rules to the letter.. if you were true to yourself and comfortable without fooling yourself or pretending.. and it still doesn't work out.
It just wasn't going to. You should be about as disappointed as finding out that the air in front of you has not spontaneously turned into a diamond or the lottery ticket you didn't actually buy didn't win anything.
No need to take it in the chest and let it eat you alive or even worry about it. It is as simple as that, to drop it and let it go, because it never was and wasn't going to be and according to Rule #1 you weren't worried about it in the first place, so moving on is that much easier.
Dangling Rule #4
Sometimes You Just Win.... Just Don't Do Anything Stupid
Sometimes fate is in your corner and you don't have to worry about a thing. The girl you like, the job you want, or any old thing will be there and wait and utterly yours without even following the first three rules. Following them will only get you further and enhance things and keep them solid.
