lazycoconut
I liked him when he wasn't a god
It doesn't matter whether or not the "courted" had any interest in the start. And there is no measurement of entitlement going on. It is to some extent unfair to the courted (over here, it's the female) but the option to reject anyone and/or everyone (or the entire courtship custom altogether) is always there.
Over here, there's a term for people who got courted into submission, and most people think it's sweet. I don't think you have the right to call out any relationship that started out as such as "unhealthy".
It is a fictional relationship. Souji is a fictional character and in context of the story he does not have the option of rejection. His actions are decided not by himself but by a writer who makes him give in to Rin solely because she wants him. It's similar imo to the concept of "imprinting" in the Twilight series where a male werewolf can designate any female, usually a child or even a newborn baby, as his soul mate. He then hangs around until she's old enough to marry him and while she could technically say no, she never does, because as one character describes it "why would she say no?" It's just taken as a given that this is what she will do and what was decided for her. That's not really a choice at all and it is what's happening to Souji.
I would also say that culture and tradition does not make something right, but that's completely another thing and I will not discuss it here