Very important thread: Guys..what am I going to do??

[Sentinel King]

well for one thing, just maybe she's being a kind friend, and from the sound of it, you haven't seen her in a long time, so her acting all smiley and stuff is only natural to a close friend you haven't seen in a long time. Believe me all close girl (friends) of mine act like that. Just be careful before making your move. It'll only make things awkward if you get the wrong impression. and I trully suggest you don't bring it up, she needs support more than ever, she doesn't need more awkwardness in the situation she's in

Barashin, North Carolina is very, very, very big state. It took us two hours long to drive there to do our shopping list earlier today. We once going there each month, to save gas on our car, we don't want to running our cash out. I have only 650 dollars left.

That's why I haven't seen her in a long time. Last time I seen her was about four weeks ago. Did you know that she supports me all the way to getting cochlear implants? Well, I has to broke her heart to break this news that my insurance wouldn't pay all that. She wanted to hearing my voice so badly.

So..don't worry about it. I'll be more careful, but I don't think I'll be bothering to bring that up in our conversation the next time I see her next month. It's going to be very awkward. After married women is against every fiber source of my body, I wouldn't hit on married women. That's how it got me into this mess first place!

 

[Barashin]

like I said...what do I know? I'm just giving my 2 cents on this matter. You don't have to persuade me into thinking other wise cause honestly I could careless hehe just go out there and do your stuff...

 

[MetalSymphony]

Just play things by ear. (No pun intended)
Wait and see what unfold's.

If she leave's him, she's fair game, plus she obviously seems romantically interested in you.

if not, well .....thats life.

Just don't do anything that could make things weird between you two.

 

[Sentinel King]

Deka_Hero, I won't do anything weird between us.

But last year, she wouldn't let me getting sick after I learned that my great-grandmother passed away. I told her that I don't want to eat, she just won't take that "no" answer...

Odd thing is..I don't have to pay.. :sly:

 

[jai009]

I'm dead serious! It's actually happening to me! I has to take all it in...

Umm... well in that case just play it by ear. She's only thinking of leaving her husband. When she actually leaves her husband, then you two should talk.

 

[Forever Knight]

Earlier today, I got myself into unwanted position that got my heart racing..

Well, I went to this restaurant to eating there, my female friend has that glowing smile on her face, almost as if she already knew that I'd be here today, so we chat up a bit. I never see her so happy in my life..!

Her response was: "I've missed you!"

I never expected that she missed me that much, let alone one month I haven't been around. So that conversation continues to rolls, I told her that, "Sorry, I've been busy. So what's up?"

She replied with her cheerful smile, informed me that there's nothing at all. But we were talking about her daughter had ear surgery two days ago..then out of blue...! She informed me that she's thinking about leaving her husband of three years.

I frozen in fear! I was in state of shock to learned that she's thinking about leaving her husband of three years. You know..almost as if my heart's really happy about this, but I couldn't be help, but feels very sad. Last year, she looks very single to me, I was hitting on her! Seriously, we really like each other a lot, but why did she decided to informed me, rather than telling her dear friends?

****..I'm already in unwanted position right now...so impossible for me to get out of...she can't be serious about leaving her husband of three years. So, I asked myself that question, "Could she leave her husband..so she could be with me? How is that even possible?"

Now, she told me that I mustn't tell her husband about this. Well, she doesn't think that he deserves to know what's going on with her. So I took her secret back here. Now she wants me to teach her some words of Chinese, Japanese, Korean!

Guys..what am I going to do! Do I have courage to tell her how I'm feeling about all this? Should I just let my heart be happy? Damn it..be honest with me, you guys!

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Just because she tells you she missed you and she is leaving her husband doesn't mean she is leaving him for you....

 

[Alcin91]

Never ever think about a girl who got a husband,fiance at all.Trust me,i did it and got screwed pretty badly,just because of some false alarm actions she gave to me.

I was like you,naive and thinking that everything is like doing good for me.Suddenly this thing pops up and that good thing pops up.

It's the prelude to your doom.Been thru it and barely survive,think wisely

 

[Forever Knight]

^Right there. Take that to heart.

 

[Barashin]

like I said earlier, he's just too full of himself

 

[Kaiju]

Chics 101 : They set themselves up solidly WITH ANOTHER guy before they get out of ANY relationship, be it marriage, engaged, regular dating , blah blah blah. "officially" ..if it isn't you, it's gonna be another guy. Sorry to dent your ego . Tread carefully :buttrock: She's telling 50 other of her "guy" friends too, trust me.