As a fellow African-American I gotta say that I hate this little "rule". We're allowed to be as nice as anyone else, so you keep on being nice Kivat.
As for my little quirks:
1. Kinda lazy (seriously working on this one)
2. Tendency to complain (not on here as much, though)
3. Quick tempered
4. Reclusive at times
5. A little sensitive (I've never been told this but I know it's true)
6. OCD sometimes
7. A little shy
8. Too honest
9. Too serious
Someone who keeps saying "I'll take em'" but I don't
the Maniana Habit.
The "Bahala Na" Habit
The studying late than the time expected.
The hopes that I broke.
(ALL ARE FROM THE PAST, Some are still present, others are dead.)
4. I have a serious face and sometimes people will think I'm mad about something
5. I get annoyed easily
6. A bit shy when I first meet someone
7. People tell me I don't have a sense a humor because I don't laugh at their jokes. I do actually, but it's only triggered when something is ACTUALLY funny
8. I have the tendency to be a smartass when people ask me silly questions or ask me stuff that they should already know
I think for me the first most annoying this is how hyper I can get. I know that annoys Faded at the very least. I am either SO happy it pains everyone around me...or just angry/sad. Very rarely am I in the middle. And if I am then it just seems like I am quiet. Also, I am very quick to anger. VERY quick to anger sometimes.
Not to mention that I am very controlling when it comes to how things are done. If they are not done the way I like (it doesn't matter if it's just as effective/good as they way I do it) then I have like a little inner fit. Sometimes I wonder if I have some very minor OCD.
But another thing, being nice also doesn't get the girls. They don't like that, at least I don't know any black girls that do. and with white girls, I put up a little front, then gradually I can get a little comfortable. It's annoying as hell.
Girls want the badasses, don't get me wrong I'm no softy. trust me. lol
But I'm no gangster either. I need to understand the teenage female mind.