I don't think you need to say all that, the show is a re imagining.
1/2 - The manor and cave were very far from the downtown.
3 - Gordon wasn't born the chief of police in Gotham, and all vigilante's have police opposition, or else they aren't vigilantes.
4/5 - I'll give you those
6 - A chemical spill that not only miscolours you, but deforms you? Hell yeah I'd be crazy too.
7 - I actually liked Bane's design.
8 - I'll give you that one too.
9 - Proves you know not which you are talking about, and are only following the trend of hating "The Batman".