Romance: Is it Worth the Hassle?

[bluesilver12]

Now that I think of it, I really don't know. There are good reasons for/against romances but in the end, you got to do what will truly make you happy.

 

[Synch]

its dead jim!

 

[Bolt]

I think so. Some of the happiest experiences I've ever had have been with my current girlfriend of a year and a half. There are times when problems arise, as they will with anything, but if you truly put the effort necessary into letting the relationship breathe and grow, it's one of the most beautiful things you can ever share with another person. If you play your cards right, you have a person you can let in on everything, who will always be there for you and will fulfill many of your most vital needs. A romantic relationship isn't something that you can put on auto-pilot and expect to play out the way you want, you have to be willing to work on it. It's like grooming a bonsai tree; very delicate and requires a good deal of attention, but is very rewarding emotionally as well as aesthetically and can outlive even its cultivator.

 

[Rider of Abaddon]

I was going to post yes and give reasons but I think Bolt said more than I could. And DigDoug and Faded also. Dont know if I'm missing anyone there. lol.

But seriously...it's like that saying that girls have. "If he's actually worth the tears then he would never make you cry." Though I don't believe that one completely it's the same idea.

I think that once you find the person you want to be with all of the 'hassle' is worth it. My fiance is also my first boyfriend, but it was one of those things where I just kind of knew he was the guy I was going to marry early on. Not because of that 'love at first sight' movie stuff. But because he really cares, he makes me laugh (most of the time), and he will put an effort into everything. I really cannot imagine my life without him. Not that I could never function again or anything, but he makes me so happy overall that I couldn't imagine NOT having him around.

 

[Rayl]

Yes. Just cause a few nerds get all jaded since they can't get out and find someone doesn't mean that it's not for everyone. In fact, I believe some (but not all) of the best moments in life are those shared with a significant other. Romance being a "hassle"? Come on. I don't mean to be harsh, but grow a pair (that's directed at the original poster, whoever they may be.)

This is my point of view... fair enough i've had some horrible experiences with women in the past to the point where some of my friends wonder why i still bother but i think the same as you do. I believe that some (if not all) of the best moments in life not only should be shared with somebody you love but are generally created because you're with them.