Sorry- I've never really had any sensitivity to death- my dog died when I was six & I just gave it a wierd look & knew perfectly well that she was dead.
Same thing with my own Grandmother three years ago- but I try to lighten up the mood- whether it's prompted or not & this was seriously the only thing I could think to say at all.
I don't really think it helps one way or the other & it's good to remember a person this iconic to a show or to anyone's life- but I, personally, just never felt threatened by the fact that someone is no longer on this Earth- doesn't mean I don't miss 'em, though & Udonna shall surely be so...:coolshades: