Odd-Topic Justice: Nice guys...really do finish last.
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MegaRyu124x
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Now, this is why I turned to HJU. Because I get advice. Not the usual "Forget her, just go to a tittie bar" thing.
Thank you.
I have read each and every one of these posts from my HJU bretheren. I read them slowly, so to avoid any misunderstandings. Now, yes. I have realized I'm blind, foolish, and just plain stupid. I haven't even reached high school, yet I'm thinking I'm in love. But damn was she fine...I mean, attractive.
....
Anyway, I just want to say thanks. I learned a lot from you guys, and I'm glad to hear that many of you have found success with your loved ones. Good luck with them in the future. It seems it will be worth it when you grow old with them.
So, thank you for all your kind advice. They've been appreciated.
Oh, and thanks again for the nice guy advice. Every guy around me were getting with women and they had a reputation for being bad, especially with some drugs and stuff, which is actually very sad. Me? Never been high, drunk, or smoken a cigarette before, and I'm glad. But intresting how the bad ones got the girls and the nice ones walked the lonely path.
So, thank you. Thank you all. You've given me advice in time of need...
....I owe you all.
And yes. I should never have said anything on MySpace.
Sidenote: The whole change myself? I actually found myself liking the whole metrosexual deal. I felt...good....but now I feel scared. LOL
Seriously though. I enjoyed how I looked in the clothing. Maybe because I was bored with my style before this? I'm not sure. Whatever it is, it is nice to look at.
...god I'm such a narcissistic bastard. x_x
Thank you.
I have read each and every one of these posts from my HJU bretheren. I read them slowly, so to avoid any misunderstandings. Now, yes. I have realized I'm blind, foolish, and just plain stupid. I haven't even reached high school, yet I'm thinking I'm in love. But damn was she fine...I mean, attractive.
....
Anyway, I just want to say thanks. I learned a lot from you guys, and I'm glad to hear that many of you have found success with your loved ones. Good luck with them in the future. It seems it will be worth it when you grow old with them.
So, thank you for all your kind advice. They've been appreciated.
Oh, and thanks again for the nice guy advice. Every guy around me were getting with women and they had a reputation for being bad, especially with some drugs and stuff, which is actually very sad. Me? Never been high, drunk, or smoken a cigarette before, and I'm glad. But intresting how the bad ones got the girls and the nice ones walked the lonely path.
So, thank you. Thank you all. You've given me advice in time of need...
....I owe you all.
And yes. I should never have said anything on MySpace.
Sidenote: The whole change myself? I actually found myself liking the whole metrosexual deal. I felt...good....but now I feel scared. LOL
Seriously though. I enjoyed how I looked in the clothing. Maybe because I was bored with my style before this? I'm not sure. Whatever it is, it is nice to look at.
...god I'm such a narcissistic bastard. x_x
KamenRiderZero
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KamenRiderRyuki said:
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Man, I was just about to say that :laugh:
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KamenRiderRyuki said:
I would kill myself too if I was listening to that crap.
All jokes aside, Dude I think you need to get ur **** together and realise that broads ain't the center of the entire world. Crushing makes you weak, sure it's fun and feels great but when it hurts you in the end like you are telling us then it really isn't worth it man.
You need to be with someone who is going to love you back, it works both ways not 1 way. I know most of this is easier said than done but it's something that I've been able to work on (not perfect of course) throughout my life too. I've had about 4 girlfriends since I was 18 and the longest relationship was 3 1/2 years and man, by the time it ended I felt like I could breath again because it's was turning to a 1 way love street on my part and I started seeing it so I decided to cut it off and I've felt like a King ever since.
Straight up man, When it comes to girls you need to be able to keep ur cool because if you don't they can crush you. If the girl clearly doesn't like you back then leave it alone, stop wasting time. Ur better off beating off thinking about her. As long as you don't send stupid letters to her like that Deulist Stryfe guy.
Now, she clearly gave you the "answer" to everything with the Phone situation and if the guy looked pissed too then they are clearly dating. So just back off. Try to keep her in the back of ur mind and I'm positive sometime in ur life you will meet someone that completes you and loves you back, a person who askes you with a smile if you can hold her phone.
You've finished High School and that chapter is done in ur life. If you are going to College then that opens an entire new door with a BIGGER room of p00n for you to shoot for and have fun with. Now, if this repeats itself just try ur best to go back to the drawing boards, From my experience love usually falls in ur lap when you least expect or least want it. So maybe it's cool if you just stick to beating off, keep urself cool, and not worry too much about the girlies. I know that last part is fucking hard as hell but it does help if you try.
Also man, this Suicide **** is not cool. Taking ur life for some pussy is lame and you gotta realise this. You are just starting ur life out now and there is so much more **** for you to experience and looking at the bad **** in urself and thinking of killing urself is the pussy way out of things. How the **** can you watch Toku if ur dead?.
Another thing I find that really helps is keeping ur mind off **** like getting a full time or part time job in which you may find a new love interest at. I mean c'mon how many of us haven't had a crush on a co-worker? Besides Bolt who is the waitress at a Strip club. Plus you'd be making money and you can buy ur own ****, creates a good independance and makes you feel good about urself too.
You have ur health and Family, there is nothing more important than that and nothing is worth killing urself over especially not for some pussy. The only pussy worth killing for is the Pussy who'd kill itself for you.
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MaraJade
Fear the glasses!!
"Nice guys finish last."
Possibly true, but not because of what you usually hear. Why do girls always seem to go for assholes, jerks, etc. when the nice, but QUIET guy is around? The mystery surrounding what attracts women isn't really that hard. Simply put, the same things that attract men to women, besides physical appearances is a mix of your attitude, how you feel about yourself, how you carry yourself etc.
In short, personality and CONFIDENCE. Why do the people who seem loudest, out-there, in your face types (assholes included) draw and get the most attention? Because regardless of the final outcome, they are showing themselves. It's the same thing for women as for men.
Unfortunately, more often than not, and at your age, it's easier to see and certainly hear such types over the "nice guys," but hope isn't lost at all. Bottom line: don't sweat it so much, relax and enjoy your life and along the way, if you find that there is that special someone (they may or may not be true-love destined), take a step and say something.
Also, the best way to increase your chances for the relationship game is work on bettering yourself. How are you going to love, care, protect, and provide for someone else if you don't do that even for yourself? Sounds trite and even stupid, but it's really quite sensible, logical, but overlooked much too often.
Possibly true, but not because of what you usually hear. Why do girls always seem to go for assholes, jerks, etc. when the nice, but QUIET guy is around? The mystery surrounding what attracts women isn't really that hard. Simply put, the same things that attract men to women, besides physical appearances is a mix of your attitude, how you feel about yourself, how you carry yourself etc.
In short, personality and CONFIDENCE. Why do the people who seem loudest, out-there, in your face types (assholes included) draw and get the most attention? Because regardless of the final outcome, they are showing themselves. It's the same thing for women as for men.
Unfortunately, more often than not, and at your age, it's easier to see and certainly hear such types over the "nice guys," but hope isn't lost at all. Bottom line: don't sweat it so much, relax and enjoy your life and along the way, if you find that there is that special someone (they may or may not be true-love destined), take a step and say something.
Also, the best way to increase your chances for the relationship game is work on bettering yourself. How are you going to love, care, protect, and provide for someone else if you don't do that even for yourself? Sounds trite and even stupid, but it's really quite sensible, logical, but overlooked much too often.
laudre
Member
A couple of things I wanted to add:
1) Pejorative use of "gay." Not cool. Not-straight people don't much like it. There are better words that don't imply gay = bad.
2) The simplest way to get dates? Ask. And if they say no, you're no worse off than you were before. Really, what's she gonna do? Not date you with a vengeance?
Instead of sitting around emoing out about, just ask her out, and she says yes, cool. If she doesn't, oh well, move on. It's that simple.
1) Pejorative use of "gay." Not cool. Not-straight people don't much like it. There are better words that don't imply gay = bad.
2) The simplest way to get dates? Ask. And if they say no, you're no worse off than you were before. Really, what's she gonna do? Not date you with a vengeance?
Instead of sitting around emoing out about, just ask her out, and she says yes, cool. If she doesn't, oh well, move on. It's that simple.
BorgmanJayce
Member
I found that after watching most of Densha Otoko TV [Anybody know where I can find a torrent for a decent sub of the movie?], I find that I want to confess my feelings towards this girl that I've known for a few years online and I've decided that if she doesn't feel the same way towards me then I have no regrets telling her anyway.
I do have regrets about losing the love of this girl that I loved dearly a while back even tho she broke my heart badly but at the end of the day, I still forgave her because I'd rather have her see me as a nice guy rather than a evil bastard who stalks her constantly...
That's why I love this forum a lot instead of a certain board which allows a certain somebody to make crazy posts without getting banned... It's because the people here truly care about each other and support each other for the most part without any of the mods being totally anally retentive as far as rules are concerned [unlike a certain board where the mods are just anally retentive, period...]
At the end of the day, I just hope that I can win this girl's heart so I can try and make her happy... If not, hopefully we'll still be friends for a long time to come...
I do have regrets about losing the love of this girl that I loved dearly a while back even tho she broke my heart badly but at the end of the day, I still forgave her because I'd rather have her see me as a nice guy rather than a evil bastard who stalks her constantly...
That's why I love this forum a lot instead of a certain board which allows a certain somebody to make crazy posts without getting banned... It's because the people here truly care about each other and support each other for the most part without any of the mods being totally anally retentive as far as rules are concerned [unlike a certain board where the mods are just anally retentive, period...]
At the end of the day, I just hope that I can win this girl's heart so I can try and make her happy... If not, hopefully we'll still be friends for a long time to come...
MegaRyu124x
Member
Thanks again guys...so much help!! ^_^
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