My Gran Died...

[BorgmanJayce]

Thanks, DekaThunderRanger...

Right now tho, I feel like murdering most of my family because they're giving me grief on getting rid of my stuff [especially my manga/comics/graphic novel collection] without giving me the chance to sort it out and I 've been pissed off with my Mom so many times that I finally snapped today and I threatened her with a penknife and told her that I was THIS close to stabbing her...

As far as I'm concerned, the day my Mom dies will be the happiest day of my life because she's a selfish arrogant bitch who only looks out for herself and I hope she gets what she deserves...

 

[Black Ranger RX]

Thanks, DekaThunderRanger...

Right now tho, I feel like murdering most of my family because they're giving me grief on getting rid of my stuff [especially my manga/comics/graphic novel collection] without giving me the chance to sort it out and I 've been pissed off with my Mom so many times that I finally snapped today and I threatened her with a penknife and told her that I was THIS close to stabbing her...

As far as I'm concerned, the day my Mom dies will be the happiest day of my life because she's a selfish arrogant bitch who only looks out for herself and I hope she gets what she deserves...

WHOA!!!

You sure have a troubled family life man!! :nono:

 

[Bouken Black]

you mean they want you to throw it out because you live with your granny or somethin'

 

[ModrnRomance13]

I learnt from my stepdad yesterday that my grandmother who I've lived with all my life died on Monday!

I only got told yesterday because my family didn't want to upset me while I was at college on Monday or Tuesday...

Right now, I'm going thru all kinds of emotions including sadness, hurt, red eyes from crying and anger at God that this could happen... I knew she'd die one day, but two weeks before her 80th birthday is just cruel...

I know 100% how you feel. I also know absolutely nothing I or anyone else says can make you feel better, but just remember: it can only get better from here.

 

[BorgmanJayce]

It just got a lot worse... The bastards actually took my Gran's collection of commemorative coins without asking if I wanted to keep them!!! That is SO fucking IT!!! I'm definitely going to disown them if they don't give me those coins as I don't have any keepsakes of my Gran's... I knew they were heartless bastards but I didn't think they'd be so fucking heartless as to not let me keep anything of my Gran's...

One thing's certain, if I ever win the lottery, I'm moving to the States and not letting them know at all that I'd won the lottery...

 

[ModrnRomance13]

I literally know exactly what you're going through. After my friend died, thieves broke into their home and stole a ton of stuff including her laptop, jewelry, and a cross she was wearing when she died. Their family still hasn't gotten it back.

 

[BorgmanJayce]

That really sucks to hear about your friend's family home being stolen and personal items being stolen after she died...

On another note, wish me luck as the funerals on in a couple of hours...

 

[BorgmanJayce]

The funeral service was really nice as was expected from a Catholic service and Father George who was the priest conducting both the funeral mass and the burial service told a wonderful story about how my Gran used to sell calendars around Xmas time and she'd sell so many of them that they'd have to keep reordering them!

I ended up deciding to go to the burial service at the last minute as it would mean saying one last goodbye to her even tho I originally planned on not going. I'm just surprised that I didn't break down and cry floods of tears at the service even tho one or two did flow down my cheeks.

Afterwards, there was a funeral wake at a pub near my Aunt Mavis's house which was quite enjoyable as it meant getting to hang out with my cousins which I haven't done in a while especially with my two cousins from Yorkshire; Donna and Joanne with whom I had a good laugh with over a few things...

Later on, one of my other cousins and his friend came round to my place to stay overnight just to make sure that I was OK which was really nice of them and we ended up playing a few games of Dead or Alive 4 and NBA '06 on the XBox 360.

Even tho my Gran's now gone, I've decided that if I have to move, I'm going to Liverpool as there's better job opportunities, better public transport and a better social life as well! It's going to be weird being on my own at first but I'll just have to get used to it for now...

On another note, I just want to say 'Thanks' to everyone here for supporting me over the past few days and I guess I've managed to find the inner strength of a Toku Hero if I managed to get thru most of yesterday reasonably OK because of the people here...

 

[Keith Justice]

You'll do fine and no doubt even better than before.... you'll do yer Grandma proud.

I've found, consistantly after tragedy or losing something of great value... so long as I don't give up and keep fighting that I always find something even better.

The laws of equivalent exchange if you will.

Keep the fight alive and never give up, Jayce. :thumbs:

 

[Bouken Black]

my friends grandma passed yesterday afternoon and boy was he sick.