I'm in a rut HJU

B Samurai

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Alright, I would hate to start another, "Hey, it's another drama thread," but I seriously need some help. So, let me set the scene for you:

Two of my friends had recently broke up. The guy, and as much as I would hate to say it, is really emotional about the whole thing, crying in school, and just all that unneccessary stuff. Well, they broke up because the girl didn't love the guy anymore, and before they did break up, the girl came to me for advice. Now, I had in no way, any influence as to how they broke up because I just met the girl like a week before all of this. Anyway, so last Friday was a football game at my school, and I wanted to hang out with some friends, so I went. But in truth, it was for the girl in question, and when she got there, she said she came for me too.

Awwwww. :rolleyes2: Yea, I know.

Well, all of the friends that knew the girl and guy divided that night into who would comfort the guy, and who would comfort the girl. So, guess who I went along with?

Anyway, I'm hanging out with her, and soon the conversation deviates from the guy, onto the relationship between us. So, then one thing led to another and we made out. Normal teenage bull, nothing really special there.

Well, I come to school Monday with the idea that me and her are going to date, and low and behold it happens, all the while, I have convinced the guy, that nothing is going on between me and the girl, and he believes me. He even comes to me to ask how she is doing, so I'm playing mediator between the two as well.

Yea, I'm a good actor.

So, we start showing affection around our friends and stuff, nothing big, and we made all of our friends promise not to tell the guy. So, with all the luck in the world, he finds out that the girl is dating someone, but he doesn't know who yet. So soon, I believe he will find out that it's me, figure out that I've been lying to him the whole time, and all that ****.

So, this is where you guys come in. I'm freaking out right now. :thumbs: Way to go me for getting myself into this. Anyway, I need advice on the situation, because this hasn't really happened to me before. So, if you guys have something helpful, please share.
 
Step out that's all I can say dude! To me, there have always been a rule about not dating your friends ex, that just won't go out right at all! and right after they just broke up or a fight or something? Dude, you're seriously fucked up man, foreal!! Bro's before hoes dude :laugh:

Welcome to my world B.
:laugh: I thought about your situation as well man. You guys seriously have no control dude :laugh:
 
Come straight out man, don't let anyone tell him. The words have too come straight outtah your own mouth dude, or else things will get more fucked up.
 
Just come clean and do it fast because I've seen this play before and when a person like you drags it out, its not a good ending.
 
I've found it's best in these situations to just bear your soul and reveal everything.

And then run like hell.

Seriously, this is a sticky one. Whatever you do, don't lie about this. That's the fastest way to make this worse.
 
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Guy broke his hand just because they broke up, he's got sort of an anger problem. But, I totally understand where you guys are coming from, and I believe that if confronted, I will tell him that. I mean, me and him haven't been friends that long, so it wouldn't really matter to me, but at least he knows I would take care of her.

And I know that sounds messed up, but hey, it happens. But, if he does decide to get angry and try to fight me, I won't do a thing, because it's stupid to fight over a girl, unless it's in toku.
 

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