slyther2rao,
There's
always going to be conflicts in a fandom. Anime fandom has had it. And tokusatsu is no different. And in tokusatsu, it doesn't apply only to superhero shows; even Godzilla fans have been up to each other's necks, especially politically, when it comes to certain fan clubs and the like! I've seen it happen. (And I'm not naming names.)
I've been a tokusatsu fan as far back as I watched Godzilla movies and other Japanese sci-fi, and was truly able to appreciate it. From my tween years onward, I was able to understand the fandom. I learned from August Ragone about how the conflicts in "organized anime fandom" were stirred up in about 1984, and the Cartoon Fantasy Organization (CFO, the premiere club of animation, anime, and Japanese sci-fi) collapsed by 1990. His 1996 essay, "The Idiot, The Glutton, and The Pompous," describes how many tokusatsu and anime-related fandoms have fans who, for lack of a better term, have no life; some toy dealers who sell items for outrageous prices (twice the amount sold in Japan); and fan clubs who fight each other for who is the great poobah in fandom (like in the aforementioned Godzilla fandom conflicts).
And the old-vs-new conflicts and this-vs-that arguments are a moot point. We have it everywhere. In sci-fi, you have Doctor Who, Star Trek and Star Wars fans up to each others' throats about which series is better. Some Star Wars fans also prefer the Original Trilogy they grew up with over the new "Special Editions" that messed everything up, and make up all sorts of conspiracy theories about George Lucas. In comics, you have Marvel fans who prefer the classic comics by Jack Kirby, Steve Ditko, etc., and you have fans who buy the newer dark stuff by "hot" writers and artists, and they argue which is better, while unaware of the fact that these characters were ostensibly meant for kids. You have modern Batman fans who annoy the hell out of fans of other superheroes, both DC and Marvel, by saying that he's better than every single superhero in the universe, when, theoretically, even the Hulk, let alone Galactus, can pound him to bits! He's just a man in a bat suit!
See, I'm not ashamed to say that I'm guilty of this sort of thing, too!
You asked a very good and very common question. This sort of thing has been around for as long as something has had fans, but finding a solution to such conflicts is not a very easy one. Because many of us are individual human beings with different preferences.
The greatest solution is just to enjoy what you love. Don't let anyone else's opinions (even mine) get to you.
