Haha, I loved "20 years old", I couldn't even finish the other on the first listen.
Sounds cool that you'll get to have a big family get-together, it would be great if some of the ones you haven't seen in a decade or so would come as well. As for me...nah. My extended family mostly lives in Mexico, I think I have an uncle in France. But yeah, my mom and her sisters get in a lot of fights, so we'll go really long periods without talking to them. I'm also not too fond of my aunt, or at least the one that lives in America, though I'm trying to change that mindset since I don't like the idea of not liking family members.
Haha, neither were really cruises for me, I had problems in each. I'm starting to realize that I probably would have tried to find a way to stay in school if I didn't have other people threatening to kill me like...every other week.