K so heres my drama.

[CaptainB_Money]

this is a topic to combine both threads. the one about my virginity and the one about me being in a bind.

K so in the last 2 months she got dumped by matt and has been going out with me. that has lasted pretty well till i became a suspicious ****. well it turns out that being Suspicious is good. theres another guy. someone i would label as friend but when he pulls this **** not so much named Allen. allen is only 16. allen is trying to take brittney away from me. when brittney wants to chill with someone else allen just drives over to her house and brings her to his house. i dont think i specified this on any of the other threads but a few months ago she broke her computer. it was a POS laptop. now without one she is MAD bored. the only other thing she has is a PS2 with 50 Cent: Bullet Proof and a GBA SP i gave her. Bullet proof sucks and well she is KINDA into Pokemon Sapphire. yesterday night we broke up cause i thought she was cheating with this allen dude. earlyer today not even 13 hours after we broke up we get back together and i tell her "lots of people have been talking ****. i dont care much of what they say. but if you need anybody to talk to or want anybody to talk you you know i have your back 24/7.".

am i in love?

sorry for the huge paragraph

And before anyone says anything about some TV bullshit i just wanted to state that i'v been watching "The O.C." before i posted this thread.

and another thing. a lot of you said our relationship is based on sex. thats bull cause we havent had sex in over 6 weeks.

 

[Mr. Underachiever]

I believe this is what they call "taking an L."

 

[Barashin]

So what you basicly want to know is if you're in love or not? You should know that better than any of us. If you'd die for this girl, despite what every **** you guys have been through, you know it's love. If that ain't love, I don't really wanna know what love is...

I just wanna go out and say that finding love, and having someone to be loved & trusted by is a miraculous feeling, no doubt...but despite that, I feel that being single is true ****'n happiness :castlerock: With that in mind I just got one thing to say...

"I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one"

:laugh:

 

[Ryulong]

Ugh... Enough with these threads.

I understand that this is the "General Discussion" board for the forum, but seriously. How is anyone here going to give you any useful relationship advice?

There is no fucking book that will tell you what to do. Go with your own damn mind and deal with the consequences. Whatever the hell happens, live with it.

Honestly, if the only thing that is keeping your relationship with this girl alive is the fact that she popped your cherry, then you need to decide if that is who you really want to spend time with and if that is really what you think love is.

 

[Kaneda]

"If you havin' girl problems I feel bad for you son."

 

[Mr. Underachiever]

Honestly, if the only thing that is keeping your relationship with this girl alive is the fact that she popped your cherry

Something about that just doesn't sound right. Do guys even HAVE cherries to be popped?

 

[The 2nd Evil]

They do at Rocky Horror Picture Show.

Except ballons are used to represent the cherries.

 

[Kivat]

So i guess she is what you would do for a Klondike bar

 

[SaikoDragon]

remember that a girl just doesnt want someone to listen to them and pat them on the back. They need a man to make them laugh and have a good time too. So dont think that just "being there" will further your cause for a relationship. If you want it, push. Flirt, spend more time with her doing fun things, etc.

Now if you want to keep the relationship with her, just remember that being romantic, clingy, and affectionate doesnt always win you the EXP at the end of the day. You have to keep reminding her why she is with you. Making her laugh, doing things she likes to do, etc etc.

Ugh... Enough with these threads.

Great thing about HJU is that we openly welcome these threads. Whenever you're down about anything Ryu, you know HJU has your back. :thumbs:

 

[The_Next!!!]

This is honestly what you get for banging her when she was with someone already.

Karma, karma.