Do You Kiss on the First Date?

[Keith Justice]

I went on a date myself last night... we had sushi, then met some friends at a nice bar to see the final performance of a damn good band.

Coversation was pretty good, good amount of laughter at the end, but.... no good night kiss, but I don't know if that means anything.

What do YOU think?

Too early to tell if there's any spark for potential fire, but all's good... I'll play it by ear, like I had advised my Padawan learner not too long again.

His advice to me in his heart warming Indian accent and a smirk at being able to use the newly learned phrase, "I think you should hit it."

An exchange between me and my team lead here at work we'll call Sunspot:

[08:53] JC: do you kiss on the first date?
[08:53] Sunspot: i suck dick on the first date
[08:54] JC: then i guess my date didn't go well at all last night.
[08:54] JC: ^__^
[08:56] Sunspot: lol
[08:56] Sunspot: did you make out? not doing anything could be a good sign
[08:57] JC: we went for sushi, had good conversation, went and saw a band, hung with my friends laughed a bit more and then when she dropped me off, we did a kiss on the cheek...
[08:57] JC: yeah, i'm used to gettting [censored] on the first.... well... hook up.
[08:58] JC: soooo... i am wanting something different this time around and i'm not sure if this is how mature relationships start or if i slipped, tripped and impaled on the Rusty Pike of Friendship.
[08:58] Sunspot: lol
[08:58] Sunspot: i think this is how mature relationships start
[08:58] Sunspot: dont worry.. just keep going forward
[08:58] JC: hmmm.... interesting....
[08:58] JC: roger that, sir.
[08:59] Sunspot: dont spend too much money on the bitch though
[08:59] JC: too late... O_<
[08:59] JC: kinda hard not to pay for stuff when you're out with a girl.
[08:59] Sunspot: lol damn. that raises the things y ou have to do for pussy to a higher ground
[08:59] JC: i almost feel an instinctual *need* to do it, otherwise i get uncomfortable.
[08:59] Sunspot: i know what you mean
[08:59] JC: ****
[08:59] Sunspot: i like to pay too
[09:00] Sunspot: or at the least pay for myself
[09:00] JC: yeah, how's that work for two dudes?
[09:00] Sunspot: depends
[09:00] JC: on?
[09:00] Sunspot: some bitches out there like to be taken care of and expect it
[09:00] Sunspot: i havent come across those
[09:00] Sunspot: not a magnet for them
[09:00] Sunspot: i'm a magnet for the rich ones
[09:00] Sunspot: then we fight over who pays
[09:00] JC: that's gotta be nice.
[09:01] Sunspot: then i let them pay
[09:01] Sunspot: lol
[09:01] JC: even if the girl has more money than me, my right arm would start to spasm i think, if i let her pay.
[09:02] Sunspot: lol

 

[Michael Joe Red Mask]

It always depends on the situation. I would if the girl is willing, but I won't push it if she doesn't want to.

 

[Hariken]

I kiss on the first date but what guy wouldn't? :169:

I don't know man... she just might want to take it slow. One more date and you'll definitely know.

 

[Michael Joe Red Mask]

I kiss on the first date but what guy wouldn't? :169:

I don't know man... she just might want to take it slow. One more date and you'll definitely know.

Hehe. :laugh: I think the real question is "Would you hit it on the first date?" :laugh:

 

[Keith Justice]

Heh... **** yeah, I'd hit it on the first date! :169:

BUT... I'm trying for something more mature these days.... something that doesn't go at Mach 3 then burn up on re-entry.

We'll see how it goes.

What're your first dates like?

 

[KamenRiderRaze]

Yea, your right Keith. It is best to take things slow. From what I have read from many dating and relationship sites (in hopes of one day actually going on a damn date!), speeding things up can make things uncomfortable for some people.

 

[Keith Justice]

Give it time Raze... ****, I'm still learning on how things work between males and females, so, no dishonor in not scoring a date yet.

 

[bibidibabidibuu]

Depend on how the date is going, rules though I never kiss on a first date unless a juicy oppurtunity (sp?) arises but I haven't been on a date for like 1000 years.

Now I'm sad...

 

[VengeanceGOD]

Never kissed on the first date. Second, yes, but never the first. Don't worry man, that seems like a good start.

 

[Black Ranger RX]

Kiss on the first date?

*SIGH* if only there ever was a first date for me!!