MySpace: Potential Drama Brewing

I've been burned by the fairer sex before (which has led to SERIOUS trust issues...but that's neither here nor there), so I'd have quite the same delima.

I'd probably end up adding her, hell I have something like 230 "friends" now, so she'd probably get lost in the shuffle anyway.
Besides, it's not like she's really trying to get back together w/ ya. And it seems like you've moved on quite well and are happy in your place in life w/ your wife

Hmm... you guys seem to spew wisdom like some sort of blessed soft-serve machine of knowledge.

I talked to my wife about it, and she's entirely impartial. She knows that I'm hers, and has nothing to fear from the ex. So, no drama multipliers there.

Ignoring it seems like it'll stir up drama too. I'd rather not have my inbox fill up with "you're cold and unforgiving" messages from her friends.

The Witness Protection Program remains an attractive option, but that's mainly because I want to keep selling platinum albums like Tupac.

I'll wait a day or so to act yet, but so far JC, Rider Faiz and Fayt Linegod's advice to avoid drama by casually accepting seems to be rock solid.

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OverdrivePrime said:

Hmm... you guys seem to spew wisdom like some sort of blessed soft-serve machine of knowledge.

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Yes, it also comes in three flavors....vanilla, chocolate, and a flavor we like to call "I'd hit it" :thumbs:

Well.. I guess I understand the situation, and have an idea how it comes from..

Though, something I'm curious about, I don't recall seeing it, but, did you happen to stay in contact. It would seem that you lost contact and truth be told, you lost contact for your reasons, some couples, even after going through hell and back can remain in contact, despite all that happens.

..But, something tells me just maybe that wasn't your case. You guys lost contact for a reason. [If I'm wrong here, then you probably wouldn't have asked for advice and have already added her.]

..But, then it comes down too, what kind of myspace page are you holding? If it's something like myself, just some random page of randomness and you're not doing anything private or hiding people. I could see very little harm outside of trouble being caused. So maybe do your research you know? It's like buying a car or something big, you don't want to go into it blind.

But really, unless you're hiding something, it shouldn't be a problem unless you allow a reason for it to appear. Really, only you know deep down if you want too or not. Just don't let the idea of her --friends-- sending mails bother you, remember, their her friends, they're gonna take her side just who she is, like I'm sure your friends would.

Have you happened to check her page out? See what's going on in her life, if possible, make sure this isn't some sort of odd.. "well I was happier with him..." sort of deal and some insight