Kyusaku said:
I could try digging up that news article about that woman marrying an otaku who wanted to dress up as Kamen Rider for his wedding.
I am
totally doing that for my wedding now. At the very least, we have to get married by a guy dressed as Kamen Rider. :laugh: j/k
Seriously, I also get irked when people who don't know Japanese try to use Japanese words and fail miserably ("Die skii" is my all-time favorite) and saying something like "Oh my kami-sama, that's so kawaii!" just sounds embarassing.
Buuuut, I think if you have an actual understanding of Japanese and enough common sense to know when certain words could or should be used, and you know what those words
actually mean...you can use them, as long as it's in the right context. Like if you needed to explain to someone how the JR trains work (i.e. the different types) or something...I feel that's okay. I would never just randomly throw out Japanese to impress my friends (I actually dislike speaking Japanese with another foreigner unless it's in a classroom setting, but that's just me.) But I do incorporate a lot of Japanese words into my daily vocabulary, but then again I'm speaking Japanese most of the time anyway now, so it's just me being lazy and forgetting English.
kyo28 said:
It's all a matter of degree and knowing how to behave socially (e.g. don't talk about Kamen Rider to your boss or to your girlfriend's friends).
I guess it's just going different for different people. I know I probably spend too much money on Tokusatsu stuff these days (I even caved in and bought one of the Shocker USB drives the other day.) And so far this year, when meeting new people, I unbashedly admit "Figure collecting" is one of my hobbies. And I'm not shy about admitting I like Kamen Rider to others (although I also mention that since it's a kids show and therefore easy to understand, it's also educational! :anime: ) And the people I mostly speak with on a daily basis are college students, who are a pretty subjective bunch.
And yet I still have lots of friends (including quite a few girls, one whom I would consider myself pretty close to), and a life outside of my hobby.
I don't consider myself obsessed, hardcore maybe (hey, I dropped the cash partly to go see some rock that was in the original Kamen Rider for about 10 seconds, right?) but I don't let it dominate my life. So I think it's just all in how you portray yourself (which is basically what kyo said, I'm not disagreeing but just adding my personal experience.)
Possibly, it could just be that as a foreigner, I'm already "odd" enough to most people that liking Kamen Rider is just one more odd trait, or that as a student (and i.e., not yet a full part of the adult world) they just cut me some slack...but I dunno, I have yet to have an experience where it's caused me any social grief (well, aside from my American friends now calling me "Kamen Rider Paul" to seperate me from another Paul in the same class. :laugh: )
I'd like to hear from other foreigners who live/have lived in Japan, about how outgoing they were with their interests, and whether it was a problem or not.