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While Kura may have had logic, I hate to tell y'all that the angry people are right. Even though they didn't know the full situation, they were indeed right. The people who were the most hot blooded about this already knew the situation fully.
The man was shall we say "highly important" (we're in a city of big money makers). He was demanding the venue out of his own personal feel of importance (the venue's words not mine). He wanted to hold a fancy dinner party and could not care less that it was our wedding. His company has a substantial investment in the other properties the venue runs, so when he's forcing money at them and essentially strong arming them, they had no choice but to put the pressure on us. What he did was INDEED underhanded. He had little to no regard for someone else's situation because it was what HE wanted and he wanted it NOW.
Needless to say I found out who the guy is, and no I won't reveal it (too many people here would probably try to find him ). I am not going to cause a mess with him because yes, he is a very big time player where we live, and it's best to not cause more drama than he already caused.
We've had the venue since the beginning of December, a fact that they reiterated to this guy MULTIPLE times. But when they could not produce a signed contract (because we were on agreement with them to pay the deposit at the end of THIS month) the guy began to pressure them hard.
What he did WAS underhand. Some people didn't know all this and some did, but that's why I didn't stop anyone in hating him. He did something wrong, and while i'm not going to cause a fight over it to save my own hide, I don't mind if others want to vent about the shitty situation he caused for us.
Also in the "get a loan" department that was impossible for 3 reasons:
1) Bad credit on my behalf (mom thought giving me a credit card way back in high school was a good idea -_-)
2) LT does not have a local bank here, therefore has nothing established here. And I can't get him added to my account until I can get my driver's license renewed (whole bunch of crap litigation with my divorce hasn't gotten me the official name change paper so I haven't been able to do this yet. Driver's license is in maiden name, but SSN is in old married name. This means I can't renew my license until I have the papers to change my SSN back).
3) Loans can take up to 3 to 4 days to go into effect; time we did not have.
Only other option in that department was to get a title loan on the car, which we'd looked into previously and due to my bad credit and LT not being at his job up here for a minimum of 8 months got us denied.
So before you try to be the voice of reason, there were a lot of factors that we did not post out of it being highly personal. However, i'm choosing to post them now to prevent any further confusion or assumptions about our situation.
The man was shall we say "highly important" (we're in a city of big money makers). He was demanding the venue out of his own personal feel of importance (the venue's words not mine). He wanted to hold a fancy dinner party and could not care less that it was our wedding. His company has a substantial investment in the other properties the venue runs, so when he's forcing money at them and essentially strong arming them, they had no choice but to put the pressure on us. What he did was INDEED underhanded. He had little to no regard for someone else's situation because it was what HE wanted and he wanted it NOW.
Needless to say I found out who the guy is, and no I won't reveal it (too many people here would probably try to find him ). I am not going to cause a mess with him because yes, he is a very big time player where we live, and it's best to not cause more drama than he already caused.
We've had the venue since the beginning of December, a fact that they reiterated to this guy MULTIPLE times. But when they could not produce a signed contract (because we were on agreement with them to pay the deposit at the end of THIS month) the guy began to pressure them hard.
What he did WAS underhand. Some people didn't know all this and some did, but that's why I didn't stop anyone in hating him. He did something wrong, and while i'm not going to cause a fight over it to save my own hide, I don't mind if others want to vent about the shitty situation he caused for us.
Also in the "get a loan" department that was impossible for 3 reasons:
1) Bad credit on my behalf (mom thought giving me a credit card way back in high school was a good idea -_-)
2) LT does not have a local bank here, therefore has nothing established here. And I can't get him added to my account until I can get my driver's license renewed (whole bunch of crap litigation with my divorce hasn't gotten me the official name change paper so I haven't been able to do this yet. Driver's license is in maiden name, but SSN is in old married name. This means I can't renew my license until I have the papers to change my SSN back).
3) Loans can take up to 3 to 4 days to go into effect; time we did not have.
Only other option in that department was to get a title loan on the car, which we'd looked into previously and due to my bad credit and LT not being at his job up here for a minimum of 8 months got us denied.
So before you try to be the voice of reason, there were a lot of factors that we did not post out of it being highly personal. However, i'm choosing to post them now to prevent any further confusion or assumptions about our situation.