I am one of those people that if I have anything, I will give it to another person, provided that I still have enough of whatever it is that is asked of me left for myself. I hope that makes sense lol. So if I haven't got much of something, I like to keep it. If the opposite is true, I'll give as long as there is still enough left over for myself too. That way everyone is happy. I don't have a lot of money these days. So when people ask me to lend money I am always tentative or apprehensive to give it to them. It doesn't matter who it is either. There have been a few times in the past when I have borrowed someone money, they told me they would pay me back as soon as they got paid, and then I call them to see if they want to hang out and I discover that they are in town buying something - clothes or whatever for themselves. And am wondering where the money that they borrowed is. If I owe someone money as SOON as I get money, I pay them back. Why isn't everyone else the same? It is infuriating lol. Then you have to ask them for the money and it is awkward. Ugh! Have you ever been through something similar?