I am someone that is quite affectionate, and I can be quite needy too - being a Libra and all. But because I am aware of this, I school it and come across as kind of cold and or arrogant. I am not at all like this at all, but people see me thins way. I have come to realize that I am pretty picky when it comes to who I surround myself with, and only a few rare people can get through to me on a core level with very little effort. Are you difficult to get close to?