Sorry to hear about your financial troubles, FQ-san, especially on an event this important.
And while I mean NOT to sound like a hopeless romantic but...
Here are my two cents on weddings.
Weddings are events that cement the question when the significant other pops the question. When a wedding date is announced, that's the day when the couple will begin to spend the rest of their lives together, not as boyfriend/girlfriend or as fiancees, but as husband and wife. Weddings do tend to be expensive (I've been in 4-5 weddings myself), but I've always had good memories with the weddings.
Weddings can be expensive, but in my opinion, those are truly some of the best events you can get invited to. Even though you may end up crying and depressed that you still haven't found a significant other...
I wish you the best of of luck, FQ-san, and I sincerely apologize if I hadn't said it before, but congrats on you and LunaTrigger's wedding! :thumbs: