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I don't have the energy to go into detail.. linked several times things that could ellieviate what confusion I'm seeing.
What I'm seeing are long posts that're defensive of not being racist and so forth.
That's not wisdom.
Wisdom is in understanding why people are upset... not in getting upset that people are upset and telling them all the off base reason that don't take into account who they are and why they shouldn't be offended.
Simply.... it's like understanding why you don't make a joke about killing babies infront of a woman who's miscarried and saying, "What??! It's not real! It's a joke! What, just because she miscarried last year, I have to watch what I say?"
Think about it those terms instead of standing on soap boxes to preach common sense equality without taking in to account how people actually are and how they feel and why they feel the way they do.
What I'm seeing are long posts that're defensive of not being racist and so forth.
That's not wisdom.
Wisdom is in understanding why people are upset... not in getting upset that people are upset and telling them all the off base reason that don't take into account who they are and why they shouldn't be offended.
Simply.... it's like understanding why you don't make a joke about killing babies infront of a woman who's miscarried and saying, "What??! It's not real! It's a joke! What, just because she miscarried last year, I have to watch what I say?"
Think about it those terms instead of standing on soap boxes to preach common sense equality without taking in to account how people actually are and how they feel and why they feel the way they do.